duh i know how to have sex but im young and im still a virgin, not because i cant get girls (i dont mean to be conceded or anything but i can get plenty of girls in my school) its that im paranoid of the actual act...ive had oral sex with my ex grilfriend before, but she was the type that didnt want to have sex until she was ready...my only time that i tried having sex was at a party and this girl was super high, we went to her friends bedroom and made out and fondled each other, i was super hard, we took off our clothes and jumped in the bed, she immediatley opened her legs i got in between her but when i put my dick on her pussy my dick would not go in...i got embarrased on lost my boner, i made an excuse that i heard noises and we went back to the party, since then im so paranoid that i wont find the hole to put it in...someone please help what can i do?
I wouldn't worry about finding the hole, thats usually not an issue if the girl is wet enough it will slide it even if you a little off. If your still nervous you can just rub her clit when your ready to go in if you cant find it your hand will be close by for help. Good luck and it's usually not as big of an issue when it comes down to it.
I had sex with a guy who couldn't find it once. Here's what you do: slide it up and down between her legs a few times. That feels good for her, and it also lubricates you a little bit if she's wet. If you can't definitely feel wetness, she's not ready - you should go down on her. (Don't be a wuss, it's not that hard. Just use your tongue. You might not be doing it the best way, but if your tongue is hitting her pussy you're not doing it wrong.) Once she's wet, if you rub your dick between her legs a few times you should be able to find the hole better.
I took a few young guy's virginities when I was younger and I always thought it was really sweet when they got nervous (^_^) Don't worry about it, stuff doesn't always go exactly to plan when you have sex. It's not like the way you see it in porn or the movies! If you do get embarrassed about something you just need to learn to laugh about it and relax.
I have not been with that many females and only one who refused to guide it in. The first time, I just asked her to help and she refused because there was no protection (january at a drive in movie on Saturday night) A few days later, she could not get my clothes off fast enough and I never had to ask. When she wants to have sex, she will help you so she does not feel like she is being used. I am on medication and one side effect is that I cannot cum and it takes quite a while to get fully errect. But once errect, I can stay errect for quite a long time. One close girlfriend rode me for a bit over one hour cumming over and over while I just remained hard and never came. I don't feel deprived, I enjoyed being with her and got enjoyment from her cumming. When and if I can cum, I just count that as a big bonus. It is all in how one looks at it.
