How does your sex compare?

Do you ever wonder how other people's sex lives compare to yours? Do you ever wonder if there are things most other people do that maybe you haven't thought of? Or have you ever looked at a couple and thought they must have the most mundane sex ever? I wonder what the norm is. I'll try to put this in a poll, but I guess everyone will just have to explain. If you fall in between two categories, select them both.

 

I can't believe no one's interested in this but me. Is this a little too personal for you guys? Afraid of discovering something about yourselves maybe? Can this be moved to the real kinky section where people actually want to talk about things that are interesting?

 

well, it's been a long time since i heared someone doing something that was new to me (or read, or saw in some movie)

and it has been a long time since i shared my experiences with my friends

so i guess i'm outside the box that has Normal written all over

 

honestly i couldnt care less about other people's sex lives. my sex life is non existent at the moment. I got the impression people give too much importance to sex sometimes and I'm divided in that sense, because although i think sex is a very important part of human lives, it's not the only thing. having said all this, i can say that i do enjoy sex a lot when i have it and i'm not afraid to explore my sexuality with help of another. or alone

 

ya, im curious. haha id admit that. just wanna noe wut oher kinky stuff people do and see if its the same as mine. not that it really matters, just out of curiousity

 

That was the whole point. I placed the options that applied to me in the middle cause I wanna see how rounded we are. I just wonder if most others peoples sex lives are as free or inhibited as mine. Maybe we're stiffs and I didn't even know it, you know? Maybe we're fantastically adventurous. It's something that I can't know being in the only long-term sexual relationship I've ever been in. And how often do you discuss it that detailed with your friends?

 

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i never wonder about anyone elses sex life cuz i know it is much much better than mine. i voted for the second choice cuz it's the closest thing to what happens when ( if ever) we have sex. The only thing is it doesn't take ten minutes it usually take 2 seconds.

 

I'm the kinda girl that will try almost anything once. I have a fantastic sex life, but I'm always willing to learn or try something new. Especially if it feels extra naughty...:X

 

Redheads are hot. I could look at that signature all day. Shirley Manson....mmmmmmm.......

 

Tell him to read one of 'David Shade's' books. You'll thank me if he dose, belive me.

 

Maybe it's just me, but sex is different every time.
Sometimes we are just too damn tired for extensive foreplay. Sometimes we just want to be close, & it leads into sex. It's a huge part of everyday life, but it seems the younger you are the more focused you are on the whole thing.
It just comes easier with age. I don't remember what we did last week, because I never go long without it.
Also, over the years, I've learned exactly what I need for me to complete things for myself..If you catch my drift.
Women should feel empowered when it comes to sex. Learning to know your own body is the best thing for you in that department.
More reading:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/094210417X/104-1797473-3985537?v=glance&n=283155

 

I mean I can get myself off. I thought that was clear? So much for trying to be subtle.

 

"We have extensive sex in many different positions for long periods of time. We do a lot of things that might be called perverted. We know each others quirks well."

my sex life rules.

 

Awesome, Clem.

 

I know I'm abonormal. I like sex multiple times a day and ususally completley animalistically raw, sometimes kinky- even if I'm in love. and sometimes...I can go weeks without thinking about it...but when I want it I want it and I have cancelled dates before because I knew I would give it up too soon.

 

I wouldn't say that's abnormal. I would say you have a very healthy sexual appetite, which is not a bad thing, imo. Just follow whatever makes you happy.

 

none of the options quite fit me
at pressent i havent had a sex life wich sorta sux but its semi by choice
but normaly my sex lifes been extremely passionate, often 1 sexual experience would last 4 or 5 hours
on occassion even 12 hours with a couple 5 or 10 min breaks to let our heartrates return to normal
never needed to get into toys or swinging or anything too kinky although definately been adventerouse & spontanius
i also concider cuddling & carressing as part of the whole experience
and sometimes dont even need penetration for a fully mutialy satisfying experience
i love to give & give till she begs me to stop
i love love & ove lovemaking thats very tantric in nature.. at times..other times sweatty wild uncontrolled animalistic & feverish

but allways very thourough...& mutual...
or no doesnt even gotta be mutual as long as i feel i've fully satisfied her..i've never been 1 of those blow me & get outta my face guys..i've always been more the type to want to give her more & stronger orgasms then shed ever experienced & not care as much about my own..well..now that ive been without for a bit i wouldnt mind alittle attention.;.lol but still i like to give...& give alot
unfortunately ithink thats maybe partialy why alotta my relationships failed, is just gets too overpowering maybe? like an overdose?

 

I think I would qualify for many of those options at one time or another. It just depends on the situation.
I'm definatly not telling my mom what I've done thats for sure.