I'm new here, and I've kinda got quite a few burning/concerning questions to ask(I'm a horny devil, lol!), so I thought a forum was the best place to ask. I was wondering if I'm totally normally as I normally have an orgasm after what seems like a few minutes (but I've never timed myself, and time seems to go quicker). I've asked my friend, who's 19, he says he takes about half an hour! And my friend who's 16 takes about that too... Okay, I do go quite fast(about three downward strokes a second) Also they go all tingly in their stomach, and in other places like their chest, arms, back (whilst I only go tingly in my feet, pelvis) and they get loads of muscle contractions... ... am I crap? Is it because I'm only like 15, will it change as I get older? What about exercising my pelvic floor? Think it might help if I lie down, close my eyes and go a little slower? (I normally sit on a chair) I'm interested to know how long people take, and where they go tingly
You're not crap. As a youngster I used to shoot after a few seconds on some occasions. The thing is to work on making it last. When you're about to cum just stop or slow down. When the feeling's gone carry on. Edging like this can go on or hours once you've practised. The orgasms you get then are fantastic. Just keep practising!!
lol. Okay, I'll practise 'stop and go' like you said (I've done my reading on Jackin world) *is looking forward to going tingly all over*
You've NO problems except that you worry about becoming the ideal of men. The sooner you squash that idea (which we all had a while back) the better you'll be. There is no set time length for wanking, nor foreplay, nor intercourse. There is no set size for penis length or breadth. Cocks come in all shapes and colors. Circumcision removes a bit of pleasure, but the adjustment takes 3 nanoseconds, the sight of an uncut cock is nomal for the vast majority of the world's women, the extra skin provides more than you'd suspect. Also allows you to orgasm quicker for the first few years. Hair in pubic spots varies in color, amount, and scratchiness - it's removal is optional, and the decision (as in most personal matters) is at the sole discretion of the hair's owner. Facial hair is embarassing to ALL early male adolesents. It's removal is again your (and yours alone) option. Vaginas and penises are much cleaner than the mouths which nibble at them. Skin is the most powerful afrodesiac (sp?) Acne, blemishes of any sort, and the general disruption of skin in the teen years is a quickly forgotten anoyance - but needs checking out by a physician in case of serious infection. Homosexuality and heterosexuality are adolescent concerns, and once past teen-age schooling, no one but religious fanatics give a shit as long as you're open, honest, and KIND. Any more questions about 'normal,' are best answered in the affirmative until proven not to be (as in, 'is ------ normal at my age?' Yes!) So enjoy your youth, your wanking, sex, or whatever and with whomever. AND, Yes! to lying down when stroking it - but not for any reason other than comfort. I don't know how you chair huggers stand it...blah!
Okay, that was a big reply Try saying that without taking a breath... Oh, and just if you need to know.. I'm gay, and it rocks!!
Fastswitch said it all! There is no right and wrong sexually, as long as it doesn't include molestation or rape. Other than that, if it feels good - do it! I can get off in less than a minute, or take hours at a time, it depends on my mood, if I'm alone or with someone, or if I'm online with a stranger.
