how many is too many?

if a girl is 18 years old and has slept with 4 guys, would you consider her a whore? to you how many sexual partners is too many for an 18 or 19 year old?

 

maybe I'm wrong in this but I've always considered a whore someone who got paid for sexual services. If that's what you're asking, then ask youself whether you've been paid.

If you want to know how many sexual partners an 18yo has to have before she can be considered a slut then I'd have to answer there's no set number. In fact, I consider a "slut" someone who is free and comfortable with thier sexuality. If this 18-19yo you're refering to is comfortable with themselves in how many partners they've had then who cares what anyone else thinks.

 

I think a whore is a woman who trades sex for favors or gifts, but not cash.
A prositute trades sex for cash.
I thought a slut was a woman who was sleeping with many men at the same time (not an orgy), but say she is dating "John" and then sleeps with "Steve" while she is still dating "John", then "Paul" comes along, and she sleeps with himwhile still seeing "Steve" and "John".

To answer your question, no. I don't think she is a whore. I think she is curious and is looking for what feels best. She is comfortable with her sexuality.
As long as she is sleeping with the guy she is dating, then I see no problem.
If you have not had 4 partners yet, you can either play "catch-up" of just stay with her and enjoy her experience. Seems to me you would benetif from her teaching you a trick or two.

Just my opinion, take it for what's it's worth.

 

i think that it the way in which it's done, not the number

 

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Hell no!! And 4 isnt very many for fucks sake!!

 

my personal opinion is that it has nothing to do with your Number( how many guys have you fucked) the question is if they were just random guys or they were somehow special for you

 

Seconded.

 

I'd say maybe 24.

 

I was gonna go with 37 myself.

 

As to agreeing with anyone, it would be jester. But on a different level, I really think it's personal information, no one else's business, and shared only within one's self. Whores publicize, so unless you are doing so, you're nothing but a private person living life as you want - free from society's stupid rules and judgements.

 

I REALLY AM A WHORE, OF MANY KINDS.

 

you're only a whore if you think of yourself as one.

 

Do you remember them all? If you haven't lost track, I wouldn't start to worry. If you were in the three figure range, I might think you had a problem.

 

One's own personal sexual journey is a private and beautiful thing. To make people feel negative about their sexuality by idealizing virginity and/or celibacy while villifying those who are more sexually adventurous is complete bullshit contrived by fundamentalist religions who use shame about sexuality as a way to control their followers.

Sex is a gift given to adults to use as they choose. Reject anyone who wants to judge your personal sexual fingerprint. If you want to fuck around, fuck around... if you want to remain celibate, remain celibate. Just choose what's right for you, and don't let anybody impose their morality upon you.

 

I'd say, anywhere from 1 to about 6 billion. We aren't free to have sex as we wish in Christian bourgeois society, so we're all whores. Whadda'ya say?

 

I consider myself a slut, but not in numbers. Just my views toward my personal pleasure. I like to get off - so what?

 

Hahaha.........Fox....thats so cool !!!!!!!!!

 

If you are selective of your partners, I would say you are NOT a slut anyway..

If you are selective, then your "body count" would be alot lower too....


4 partners in 2 years may not seem so bad, but it should make you ask questions of yourself.. Like, are you giving yourself too cheaply..

 

Ive only had 2 guys.....but , yea..Im a whore when its about ladies.....Ive kinda lost count over the years !!!!!!!