have been dumped like a sack of potatoes out of the blue after going out with the same person for a long time? recently had it happen to me i feel like complete and total shit worst part is that it was our anniversary, anyways just wondering who felt that way before too.
my most recent ex broke up with me ten days before our anniversary. looking back i suppose there were warning signs that the relationship was falling apart, but he always reassured me that things were fine and that he wanted to be with me forever. then one day, he said he felt we shouldn't be together anymore. i was devastated and fell to pieces. but now i'm fine. this happened about a year ago. now i feel fine, but at the time i was completely heartbroken and felt so betrayed.
My ex wife ended us with no warning-one day I was living this great life-big house-Pool-Boat-two cars-three kids...then it all ended and I lived in my car for a year. Her Boyfriend moved in and I got to be homeless for a year. That was 10 years ago-Now I live in a 200 year old carriage house in Woodstock and live the best life anyone could ever dream of. My ex? On her 36th relationship and talking to her the other day smiled as the reasons she broke up her last relationship were word for word why ours ended 10 years ago. She is also going back to College and hasn't a clue who she is or what she wants. Move on and Success is truly the best revenge. Your life is NOW HERE not NO WHERE-It's up to YOU how you use the letters. I bid you Peace and Healing. The Wiz
good for you ending up in a happy life situation too bad your ex hasn't learned anything in the past ten years and keeps repeating the same mistakes over and over again...some people just never learn...
Sorry to hear that you are going through this, LedZeppelinLover. Something very similar happened to me as well. Dated for a decade, everything was all peachy, planned to get married, then BAM! out of nowhere, I was tossed like yesterday's trash. And that's exactly how I felt, because of the selfish and completely immature way he handled things. I'm sure things are hard now. Give yourself time to grieve and heal, and then move on, looking forward to all the experiences that await you. I agree with the Wizard, living well truly IS the best revenge. Try not to waste your time and energy on hating him or wondering about what you could have done differently, cause all that is is a waste. Focus your energy and thoughts on where you'd like your life to go from here, and fun things that you always wanted to do but never did.
