I'm not. But i think it would give you all some comfort if i told you that none of the people i had sex with were worth it. If i could, i would have saved myself for the person i'm with now. But i suppose i'm thankful for the experience, even though i think it was all the porn that helped the most hehe
Yea, I'm definetly saving myself for the right girl. Just getting drunk and having random sex isn't appealing to me, and I want my first time to be memorable and romantic. Yes, I'm a big softie... :&
Yeah, Butters, I used to be like you too. I guess I've just gotten jaded. I started out only having sex with girls I really cared for, but now I really am just searching for a party and some good lays. I guess you could call me shallow, but I'm young and I'm just looking to sew my wild oats. I really just got bored with "meaningful" relationships. I honestly can't stand being with the same person for more than 7 or 8 months without wanting to jump out the door and to run away from it. Congrats to you for staying a softie, hopefully you don't go down my path! ... even though it's pretty fun. lol
Thanks man. I am pretty proud of myself for waiting, but that doesn't mean I like being a virgin. I hate it! But I'm pretty happy with my decision, and hopefully since I've waited the first time will be that much better.
Almost??....ok you have too discribe being 'almost' a virgin. (I'm not btw...but i was until I was 21....I read about people who are 14 / 15 and already having sex with 12 different people in a month...djeez first I wanted too have sex too at 16 or so..but luckely i wated till I was this age..21)
Yea, I hear about all that too. It amazes me. Heck, I didn't really even think about having sex with a girl until I was around 17! I just didn't feel ready to at all before that.
than take you time I would say. It's not a 'thing' you have to do before a certain age. (some people think different about it though)
Virginity's not something uncomfortable, something you have to get rid of as soon as you can. Just wait till the right moment, with the right boy...it'll make your first time one of the greatest experiences!
You all should be very proud. Although sex is an amazing thing, in my opinion it is hardly worth doing if not with the right person.