how slow?

i have never had sex with a virgin before, and ive heard all kinds of horror stories about how painful it can be for the girl, and the last thing i would ever want to do is to hurt her. So im wondering, how slow should we take it? any advice?

 

Only she can tell you that. I'd suggest letting her guide you in, go very VERY slow, and the second she tells you to stop pushing - you stop!!

Let us know how you got on

 

I may suggest you let her be on top. that way she can control the penetration, speed etc.

 

lube might come in handy, too.