We are both virgins and do not want to take the risk of getting pregnant. How can I convince her anal is the way to go?
Say Nothing, Just Roll Her Over Onto Her Stomach, And Go For It.... If Perchance She Complains, Just Say, In The Darkness Of The Night, You Appear To Have Missed The Mark.... Problem Solved... Cheers Glen.
get her shit faced drunk... her browneye is yours for the plucking. FUCK NO! DON'T DO THAT! IT IS RAPE! i'm just kidding around with you on the that count. don't be stupid enough to do anything like that! my hunch is since your both virgins, that she is worried that, due to your inexperence with ass fucking that you may very well wind up hurting her. she has one hell of a strong case aganist ass fucking with you, due to your inexperence. what you need to do is this; that both of you get educated about anal sex. i would strongly suggest you get hold of a copy of a book entitled, "anal pleasure and health," and read it. after you have read it yourself, share the book with her. she might be put off by such an ideal. yet, she will also think your being sweetheart, by getting educated about anal sex and sharing it with her. if you treat her in a dignified way like this, she will be far, far, more open to the ideal of having anal sex with you.
The rational thing to say would be to just use protection and have normal sex if pregnancy is the main concern. Somehow i doubt it is, and if a girl doesn't want to have regular sex with you yet I doubt she's going to do anal.
Whatever the circumstances it should always be her choice alone. Even attempting to persuade her is morally wrong, as it's nothing more than trying to lay aguilt trip on her. Having sex as a result of true love is something that just happens - not something that has to be planned in advance - this is why it's always best to be prepared & have condoms handy - just in case.
Strange, when I think of contraception, anal sex isn't what comes to mind. I also don't try and convince my partner to do something they don't want to do.
you need to realize that she will probably get no pleasure from the act that you are asking about and you just need to be patient like every other teenage male virgin out there. don't be selfish! try oral!
Offer to let her fuck you with a strap-on dildo equal to the size of your dick...all things being fair. That's my rule. If you can't take it - don't dish it. But I am quite biased.... Ruby Ryder
It wont be fun for her, for a few first times, and I doubt you'll like it. Since you better listen to her when having anal or else the bitch will run shit up your cock. Anyway.. get yourself educated on sex first. Anal comes next, you're a virgin and I think its a bad idea to do either, until you educate yourself on safe sex with sexual intercourse and anal.
not to mention you would be hard pressed to get even a pinkie up her toodle without her screaming bloody murder
General rule: You don't "convince your girlfriend" to do something. If she doesn't want it, respect that.