Hi everyone I work in daycare and one of the toddlers I look after has two mummies. My problem is that I am really attracted to one of his mums! I kind of get nervous on the day the child is in and I know they are due to come in, when she speaks to me I can barely hold eye contact. I get all hot and bothered and I think she must think I sound like a rambling idiot, I don't think anything I say makes sense lol. Its so silly!!! I have this silly crush on her. Argh. Do you think it would be obvious to her that I like her? I'm not 'out' at work and I'm what I suppose you'd call femme. Obviously i would never ever make a move on her 1.She's in a civil partnership 2. I have a wonderful gf 3. I look after her child 4.She'd never be interested in me anyways So does anyone have any tips for getting over crushes? I can't stop talking to her because I am her child's key person( the child only settles with me, think he must have a gaydar lol, better then mine!) and I have to feedback to her etc. I just need it to stop! I've had this crush since her child started in September. I know it sounds silly, I sound like some love struck teenager lol. I'm 21 so I don't have that excuse anymore. Any tips, advice, anything is welcome! Thank you
Crushes are a part of life. Not sure how you get over them. Time I guess? I'd suggest just enjoying the way she makes you feel, at least you know your alive!!! Yep not at all helpful, sorry about that
