How to know if he's gay?

I've got a friend who goes to the same class as me and whom I kind of like! I mean, I'm bi and i'm sure of that but m problem here is that I'm attracted to this guy, who I dont know weather he might be bi, or even gay, or not! He's all the time making jokes about being gay and so, and he even goes touching peoples asses, and by people I mean guys from our class! The thing is that the other guys just act as he does, jokeing 'bout it and saying things like wow "alex and I are boy friends!" it's like WHAT¿? :s In general i know they're jokeing but this guy my friend i think he might be more serious 'bout it! That's why I want to know if there's any way of knowing if he's really bi or gay! Cuz I've thought that I could say "he you know I'm bi" and maybe he would say something but I'm not takeing the risk! so if there is a way! pliz tell me!

Thanks to all in advance!

 

there's been a lot of these lately..


try hanging out with him alone. go from there.

 

Grab his weenur and if it increases in size then he's gay. Then tell a chick to grab his weenur and if it increases in size then he ain't gay.

 

Why not just ask him for Christ's sake?

 

ask him to hang out with you and other people....i'm sure alcohol will be involved....and when alcohol is involved, people become a little bit more open about certain issues, particularly their sexual tendencies. buena suerte!

 

it isn't that easy..

 

And why not?

Don't dose people with alcohol.

If you're gay, be gay. Be honest, forthright, etc.

 

It's a sexual preference, not an attitude.

 

Well OK even you aren't gay, be forthright, etc.

 

One should almost always be forthright. Yes indeed.

 

yeah the best thing here is to go out with friends and drink and ask and sure he will say but...We dont go out much (us two I mean) and he doesn't drink alcohol! :s
But thanks anyway!

 

What's the harm?

I can see your worry though - with all that Euro-metrosexuality out there it's hard to tell if someone's gay or simply stylish.

 

yeah well! now that you mention one day this friend of mine was more gay than usual and he even said to a girl from my class "hey I think I'm gay" and she answered "naa I think you're just metrosexual!" hmm...

 

I'm not gay but my vestigial gaydar is picking up on this guy

 

yeah hope so . Actually it wasn't me the one who started thinking bout this guy being gay! it was another friend of mine who said if all those jokes were true!! Since then i've been thinking jeje! BTW he's straight!

 

Did he tell you this?

 

What do you mean by "this"?

 

That he's straight?

 

touch his sausage, if he doesnt hit you he is gay

 

Well, one of my friends always touches people's asses but I know he's not gay. He's just secure with himself and he knows who he is.

Perhaps this guy is just secure and not one of those bigoted narrow-minded assholes that loathe the idea of even doing a gay act for a joke.