Ok, have sex, after he cums tell him to do other things while he regains himself sexually - ie give you oral or manual stimulation. Then the second time around for him, he will last longer. Even giving him an orgasm during foreplay, then by the time he is ready to go again you'll be closer to orgasm and he will last longer.
Make sure he gets YOU off BEFORE (he) gets off...usually for this to SUCK-ceed, oral sex and dildos are involved... If you want him to last longer while you're blowing him...tickle and lick his balls and ass instead of just a straight BJ.
Okay, this is the most common and simple technique, given by most sexuologists to couples where the man has premature ejac problems that are treatable (some cases aren't and require desensitising gels, etc...). Straight from my handbook: 1. Tell your partner very clearly that you are going to work *together* in a playful way, to solve his little problem (it starts with communicating) 2. Tell him that, during this exercise, he has to give you a clear sign when he feels that he is going to come (make an agreement about a sign; a squeeze or just a word, or anything) 3. Start making love 4. After a while, you go sit on him, in the amazone position, face to face 5. In this position ride gently, but make sure that you can take his penis out quickly, when he gives the sign (so no acrobatic positions) 6. Ride till he gives the sign, move back to sit on his upper legs, and take his penis out. Apply the following technique: >with your left hand (provided you're right handed) you hold his cock and expose the glans, *but do not touch the glans* (hold the penis in the middle, no tight grip or anything) >very gently wrap your right hand around your left hand, and squeeze the frenulum with your thumb. This is the crucial part of the exercise. Squeeze the frenulum and count to 30 until the reflex to orgasm disappears. (The frenulum is the little "triangle" of the glans, facing you; the most sensitive part of the penis). >>do not touch the back of the glans, the socalled corona; the only part of the glans that should be touched is the frenulum. >>make sure that the squeeze (or the "push") is of a straight pressure, so do not move up and down or anything; one steady push, which you keep while you're counting; this push may be fairly strong; better strong than a weak squeeze; but no movement, or you'll excite the nerves in the glans >>this entire action (from taking out the penis to starting squeezing the frenulum) must be carried out very rapidly and should only take a few seconds, else he will orgasm. 7. Start over; just gently ride him again, and when he gives the sign, repeat, but this time, count to 20 and begin to ride 8. Last time: ride him, and count to 10, then begin to ride 9. Finish off by letting him orgasm Voilà, this way, he gradually learns to control his urge to cum. You can repeat the cycle (30 secs, 20, 10) a few times per love session. There's no hurry. You will see that after each squeeze, he will be able to make love a bit longer. When you first start out, it's possible that he cums, either because he's too excited, or because your thumb-squeeze technique isn't perfect or rapid enough yet. He may also cum partly, which can be frustrating. But tell him it takes just a bit of practise, and that it will help him very well. After a few weeks, he will have learned to delay his orgasmic reflex by a few minutes, and you'll be able to enjoy it too. With this technique, many men have been helped. I hope it helps your partner too.
I don't think it'll work for you GroovyChick, unless you can find a way to be less cute & less gorgeous :drool: ..damn, I didn't even last thru this message, change that pic of yourself, how's a guy supposed to last?
i would say the best way to make him last longer is to give him head and make him cum b4 u have sex. i alway cum the fasted on the first orgasm. If i get head and cum, than we keep fooling around my cock will get hard again at that point i can fuck for like an hour b4 i cum dont fuck him until after he cums once
Have him do "sets of nine" - eight shallow thrusts (2-3inches), then one deep (all the way home),then seven shallow and two deep, then six shallow and three deep, until you get to nine deep. By this time, he will blow, or he can stop thrusting for a while, and begin again. Other techniques - have him count every stroke - his brain will focus more on counting than cumming; -have him think of his penis as drawing something out of your vagina, rather than building up to putting something into it (kama sutra technique); -have him stop thrusting as soon as he gets close to orgasm, for a minute. -use a thicker condom; -if you squeeze your vaginal muscles around his penis, he may be able to move it up and down inside you, stimulating your clitoris and vagina, without the friction of vaginal walls on penis that brings him to orgasm; Your guy really fucks with his brain; his penis is just the delivery system. If you can get his brain to focus on something else slightly, rather than cumming, he may last longer. So the G Spot Master sayeth...
Tell him he doesn't last long enough. Then, when he is about to cum just stop. Wait a bit, then start again. Eventually he will get better at controling himself.
Telling a guy to "hold his load" doesn't do it - he has to learn techniques to do it. And the techniques start with his brain and not his dick.
Get him to cum before sex either by blowing him, jerking him off, or having him jerk himself off. While he recovers have him give you oral sex and soon enough he'll be ready for more.
