How do i initiate a possible relationship with someone who is already taken? but quickly i must add, im not meaning how do i break a couple up. More of how do i let her know im interested if anything between them was to end. I met someone and ive gotten some very very strong signals that she is interested. her boyfriend lives 4 hours drive away, and from what i gather they dont see each other hardly at all. (she only mentioned him cos she had to) from being at the same uni for 4 weeks, and only actually talking 3 times, i was asked for my phone number, invited to her birthday party, she even asked marriage and children questions out of the blue. (and then theres the flirting), plus she seemed to know a lot about me (ie classes, where i sit and that) We also met up during a holdiay break, just to study. And am seing her again for another study session in 3 - 4 days I missed her party due to work, so was thinking of inviting her out for a few drinks (but am worried thats too forward) Other than over the top flirting (which is only way i can think of showing i like her) i have no idea what to do. Any suggestions would be great.
Frankly, do you like the attention or do you like her? My absolute honest advice: Stop being so desperate and leave the 'takens' be. To me, she already smells like trouble and her head is likely screwed on backwards. Zero integrity, zero honesty, and zero faithfulness.
what Hannah said - leave the folks who aren't available alone, aside from being their friend. I flirt with my friends a bunch, it's done with a light heart, completely to flatter one another, nothing will ever come of it. It's just harmless flirtation, makes both parties feel better but it's not serious
beaut up her boyfriend in front of her, then stand on his corpse beating your chest and hollering loudly.
I like her (nothing to do with attention) I dont wanna sound all sappy, but it was one of those, i saw her across the room and made sure id get to know her, moments Took me few weeks to get the initial contact, but i got it. I thank you both for commenting, but id have to disagree. Just because someone is dating someone, If you truely like them, you shouldnt just pass over it. I have seen first hand when 2 people meet, (even if one is currently attatched) what can happen. Friend of mine is marrying her in 10 months. And if he hadnt gone for it, well they wouldnt be getting married Hope i didnt sound too rude
