Why is it that during a dream in which I am having sex or participating in some other sexual activity, that I ALWAYS wake up right before my orgasm? Its frustrating! Really!
I have lol. Thats why I now have an 8 year old son! Sex in my dreams is just usually a little kinkier than I get on a normal basis! lol I would like to stay asleep every once in a while... you know what I mean?
Oh you will go all the way eventually lol.. i used to have those dreams all the time and still do alot. but recently i reach orgasm all the time and can feel it. its amazing really. even though its a dream i wake up thinking it was real
Having an orgasm in a dream is no big deal. We usually dream of sex because our bladders are full, that it puts pressure on our 'hara.' The reason why you wake up is because you allow yourself to get carried away. In real life you will to learn to control your ejaculation. If you have a sexual partner you may want to research Tantra. If you are alone then you will need to stop masturbation, or at least not allowing your self to ejaculate. Many times i can't be bothered to have a sex dream, so i will tell myself to turn over in my sleep so that it goes away. Other times I indulge in it with one to three women, delighting in delighting my partner. In your case your waking up may be a symptom of selfishness. (And surely sexual release is totally selfish, totally subjective.) If it is, then you may need to learn selflessness. Because once you start to orgasm your consciousness needs not be jarred back to the waking state, it needs to remain in the mindless state, one where thinking itself stops, time itself stops. Because you start to think, you are realising that you are ejaculating, that thinking itself starts the process of becoming conscious. Then you wake up.
little bit of a different take on this.. women also have these dreams and my experience has been that it's ok to just feel. feel the moment feel without fear. Sex can also be a symbolic pitcure of you merging with something. Perhaps a part of yourself or a new idea, creation ect. It can also be a signal that you might have a difficultly in trusting with abandon. It depends on you, who you are and what your personal dream images are trying to show you. Leslie