It takes me so much effort to control myself when it comes to having sex with a guy or waiting. I slip up way too much. It's like my animal instincts take over and I can't even help myself.! Then I usually end up getting ditched, (hit and and quit it I guess =/) and funny thinkg is I never really care.. I just try to find someone better and make the same mistakes. Now, my number isn't all that bad. But I just love sex way too much. UGHH
Buy a dildo and use it before your dates, it will take off the presure, because if you give it up too early the guy wont respect you and move on.
Haha, call me a rapist then you wanna go on a date? And I don't like jump their bones, but if they make a move and it leads to more, I don't say no.. and I don't want too. And oh yeah I always use condoms. And I've tried dildos/masturbating.. doesn't seem to work for me for some weird reason. haha
if you don't feel bad about it, then maybe it's just the way you want to be at this point in your life. i did that for about 5 years... not into relationships, just pick em up, have sex, maybe accidentally leave a sweater at her house, go back to get it, have sex again, and then never see them again... that kind of thing. i was tired of relationships, and not sure i ever wanted to get emotionally involved with someone again, and it just seemed to fit for me. nothing wrong with sleeping with whoever you want to, whenever, and as fast as you want to, as long as your being safe and smart and all. i had sex with my current partner of nearly 2 years after being in the same room with him for 10 minutes. we had been talking on the net for a while first, but the first time we met in person, we just kind of fell into bed, lol!
