I can't get horny..

Unless I close my eyes and imagine i'm with someone much older then myself, with an unshaven face...

Like tonight for example, my friends and I had a hotel room, we went dancing, came back... my friends, friends with benefits started running his hands up my body when we were laying in bed... and I just couldn't get into it. This happens with everyone. So when he was kissing my neck and the side of his face rubbed against me and I felt his unshaven face I pictured this..and immedietly was horny..

Is it normal to not want anyone else...except for a certain type?
It's not..just thinking about an older man with a beard lol..I also imagine i'm in a loving relationship with this older man.

 

OK, let me be the first to say I really sympathize with you. Not being able to get horny, that's a catastrophe of biblical proportions.

Having said that, I'm old and willing to go unshaven in case you ever want to make that fanstasy come true!

 

I'm reminded of that line in Pulp Fiction:

Or what I was crapping on about somewhere else about the 5 senses all working differently.

WF, guys your age, yes they are more likely to be in shape, but the more youthful appearance does make things a tad more like the girls, not as rough and rugged as an older guy

And theres just something extra primal about things like hairy knuckles, leathery skin...and of course thier dicks are bigger

But its weird, some guys fall apart early or start to look like Rosie O'Donnell, where as some guys are like twice as hot at 30 or 40 than they were at 20

 

nowt wrong with using a bit of imagination... thinkin' of opra winfrey has helped me prevent premature ejaculation many a time

and bridget bardot to do the opposite when needed

the mind is a great tool

 

It's only natural. :coolgleamA:

 

This problem is more commonly known in the medical community as PapaSmurf-Smurfette syndrome

 

If it's of any help, I only shave once every couple of weeks and keep a pretty good stubble going.



:cheers2:

 

Alot of older men are in good shape because they work hard. That..doesn't really matter though. I just feel safe in an older mans arms. The guy I told you about that was snuggling me, was 30...and that's not old enough.

 

What a good-looking man!

 

im old...

 

If an older man would pick me to spend the rest of his life with.. my life would be complete

 

woah

 

I also always imagined he'd be a trucker lmfao

 

who me?...I look more like a out of shape tow truck driver

the pic was anna nicole...posted because she liked older men too

 

And we all know what happened to her. I hope you have better luck, WF.

 

My woman would be eating shrooms and smoking weed...
she'd live long time with a happy vagina..

 

Can I also add.. that I don't have daddy issues.

 

Wildflowers....a while ago you came out as bisexual, and considered the possibility of being a lesbian.

I have read allot of your posts and I think you need a break from dating until you get to know YOURSELF a bit better. Nothing wrong with being single for awhile.

Or you could date a rugged old gay chick, some of them have unshaven faces.

 

Sounds more normal than what some people are into and at least you know what you want.