I'm relatively new to sex, me and my girlfriend have been doing it for about 2 months (not none stop!) and she's been the only person i've ever had sex with. At the start it was great, we both loved it and I could last for ages, now i'm lucky if it lasts more than a minute or two, she's really good about it but it's really getting to me. Is there any way I can learn to not come as early?
As my girlfriend's on the pill, we don't use condoms. (we're both first time partners with each other so no diseases flying about). I used condoms for the first time or so but they desensitise me so much I end up just going soft after a while! Any other ideas?
Forget desensitizing your penis. I'm sure you have been in situations where she cums before you and you continued on until both of you are satisfied. Well, just switch your roles. The man's orgasm does not need to be the end of the lovemaking. After your cum, the two of you can continue to pleasure each other until she is satisfied. Maybe there might be a second erection in their just waiting for a chance to show its stuff. (Don't be surprised if erection #2 doesn't lead to orgasm.)
i wish i was a guy so i could be of more assistance. are you going too fast maybe? is it possible that you could think of something off the subject before your about to cum, you know not right when your about to cum but when you get that feeling that you know your going to cum if you intesify it too much. or maybe when you do cum, is it possible that you could keep going for her enjoyment or is your dick too sensitive. just hold it in her and then wait to start humping her again. dannayelli
wow, this post makes me really want to have sex, i better move on out to the hot and horny forums. dannayelli
same here man.....but the difference was before, i had never lasted for ages..... ever.... but these days we go at it until im done(wich im getting better at 8/)....then its just pillow talk/kissing or somethn completely unrelated to sex untill i can go agin..... then i might last a little too long......no complainst tho and i know how old i am damnit.....i practice safe sex lol
