I finally came out to one of my friends

I made a thread a while ago that mentioned wanting to hook up with a guy I knew. I wanted to ask a female friend of mine for advice on how to ask 'someone' [him] out, since she is bi and knows him, but I could not get myself to just come out and say it. We chatted about how she got in her relationships, but I couldn't get it to come out. So I texted her a bit ago telling her about it, and she called me and said she would talk to the guy and somehow indirectly see if he would be interested. If all goes well, I will at least have a fuck buddy. I feel kinda bad, though, that I only started liking him because I thought he might be bi. Had he not been, I would not have even thought about doing anything with him. And I am not yet sure if I want a real relationship, or just someone to suck off. Does it make me 'a bad person' to feel this way? I feel kinda shallow...

 

Go for it - we all got to get sex some way or anougher eather by a fuck buddy / one night stand or a proper relationship.

 

Eh, don't feel shallow about it. I guess we need to learn these types of things someway or another. And the thing about you finding him attractive only because he's bi - that's pretty normal too. A lot of guys are like that, including myself to some degree, so don't worry about it

Good luck!

 

Sucking anonymous cock thru a gloryhole in a smelly public toilet is shallow.

Getting some guy who turns you on into bed for some enjoyable intimacy, even if it is just for the fun of the sex and no relationship is ever gonna come of it, is just normal guy behaviour.

Or at least those are my standards.

(some may argue the gloryhole comment)

 

I guess I dont feel bad. When I think about it, he is the only person I know that I might have a chance with, so I guess there is no reason not to try.