We got married on November 16. Life is beautiful. I gave up my lovely, unique Czech surname and took on my hubby's old-age German name. In hindsight, I probably could have prevented this from happening, but never set your wedding to be the week before Thanksgiving and never let the person choosing your catering to keep it a secret, because I had "Thanksgiving" twice last month. The food from the catering company was all Thanksgiving food, with the actual holiday falling six days later. I gained a good ten pounds, from all the stress-induced bi-lateral facial paralysis (Bell's Palsy) and having to take steroids for that, wedding leftovers, Thanksgiving leftovers, and someone at work had a baby shower today with lots of carbs, ugh. It's really hard to do low carb during the holiday months, which is really bothering me, because I lost 45 pounds doing low carb in the first place. Still working at Starbucks. . . two years and counting, I guess, lol. Anyways, that's my update. How's everyone else doing? What are y'all getting into this Sunday night? Me? As soon as I clean the whip on my vaporizer, I'll be in the homestretch!
congrats! i've been married for a year and a bit now... it's going well. i think the sex is even better now.
I often wonder what married life is like, would it restrict me too much, I currently have a BF but I don't want to live with yet anyway...
Thanks! A belated congrats to you, as well. As for the sex, I definitely understand what you mean. I always thought that being married and not being able to slut around anymore (even though I've been completely monogamous for the past three years) would really suck. . . but, so far, married sex is awesome. There's something really special about it. I wouldn't trade it for anything. Well, I would say start out by living with that person for a couple of years. If you guys can get along well, you make a good team, and the both of you are responsible enough, then that's pretty much what being married is like. At least in my book, anyways. Wriston and I are a fantastic team. It's amazing, really, how well we get along together. We lived together for three years before we got married and never spent a day apart from each other. If you can handle being around your significant other without ever wanting him or her to be away from you, and the feeling is mutual, then that's what a real marriage feels like. It's wonderful.
Man, it was obsolete to begin with, lol. I was sixteen when I came up with that. Oh, the woes of being a teenager. I wish I had chosen a different user name. I mean, the underscores alone are really annoying. Hindsight, hindsight.
LOL. Yes. Well, we've been living together for three years and we've been talking about getting married for forever now. It sure does feel like longer sometimes, so that's why I said "finally." It doesn't have anything to do with my age or anything like that.
