I found my dream girl, man! I love everything about her inside and out! She rocks! But there is only one problem....SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND!!!!! This situation is kinda funny, actually. First of all I was at Office Max buying a desk chair and she started eye-balling me, then I looked at her and gave her a smile and I blushed, oh yeah I'm very shy, lol! So after a while I got enough courage to give her my number, she accepted it, and looked away, she's shy too. Then a week later I really went for it, I asked her out to lunch and she said those painfull words ''I have a boyfriend.'' But the thing is, she giggled and turned her head away, so obviously she likes me too. I cried for weeks after that, please don't make fun of me this is serious. Then I sent her a bouquet of flowers with a little card that read if you ever change you mind here's my number, for Valentine's Day. The last time I saw her was a day before Valentine's Day, she was walking to her car holding a flower that her bf probably gave her and she actually didn't look too happy. I really like her and she really likes me I can tell. Please anybody help me out here! Peace, Tie-Dye Dream
Be there for her – wait….. and only make a move after they have broken up. Be persistent but respectful. If you are eager to storm on someone else’s parade, ask yourself this first - do you really want a gf that cheats on her bf ?
It's been two months without a follow up from the initial poster. I suspect his interests have gone elsewhere. Sounds about right considering the probable age of the writer, given the subject matter. It's all good.
Every 18 year old thinks they have found "the one." Dude, you are 18 and your emotions will mature and stronger feelings for other people will develop as you get older. If she isn't with you now, she probably won't be. Why isn't she with you now? Even if she dates you, consider this: Look at what she is doing to her current bf, doesn't that tell you something? She will do the same damn thing to you once she sees the opportunity for greener pastures. Is this someone you want to date, who will flirt behind her bfs back? Come on man, open your eyes, move on and have fun. You are 18, I doubt you have found the one. It sounds like an infatuation.
Thanks for the help. Oh yeah by the way I'm very mature for my age so I suggest you guys not stereotyping me, cuz you don't even know me.
Be there as a friend. Casual friend is preferable, if you don't think you're the sort with the skill to overcome that 'too close' mumbo jumbo. But really, closer friend will get you in faster if you do think you have the chemistry and charm to override such silliness. However, if you go with closer friend: you have to be very careful when talking about the boyfriend. If there are troubles, be honest, but make sure to be respectful. It sounds to me like you are getting way too deep in your infatuation, but that tends to happen with youngings. And every teen on here is mature for their age; that doesn't mean we all have the experience to back it up. And as far as what Carlfloydfan said. It's a legitimate point. Just because she's shy doesn't mean she can't be a puppet master. Watch out. This girl could very well be horribly untrustworthy. Sometimes when we like some one we don't give them enough true consideration. Criticism is your friend. Don't do anything without analyzing her a bit first, and as always with relationships: make her earn your trust, and earn your love. Remember, true love is a bond; the emotion just comes with it. It doesn't come overnight; nor should it. Baby, it's a wild world, you can't always get by just upon a smile [guy]
