when im sober, im generally a quiet person... i mean, it totally depends on who i'm around but if i'm with people i dont know really well i can be kind of quiet, especially if it's a larger group (like more than three people or so). when i'm drunk, i get loud. i talk nonstop to whoever will listen. but when im high, i get incredibly quiet. like i wont say anything, i just get completely spaced and just totally lost in my own world. its annoying cause i'll be around people and im just dead quiet when i should be talking to people, and everyone else will be holding conversations and stuff and im just sitting there... any way i can be more social when im stoned?
learn to be more social when you're sober and you'll be more social when you're stoned give it time, you're still young. you'll grow out of it
i know how to be social when im sober, like im quiet even around people im completely comfortable with while sober.
It's finding the right thing to say that's hard.I agree with Greg.Learning to be more sociable in your daily sober life can really help.
Wow he's 27 (not really). I sure hope it doesn't take me that long to grow out of it. I've been making progress though. And yes, being stoned makes me a goddamn recluse. Mostly because all of the friends I have here would look down on me for it, so I'm afraid to talk to any of them while I'm high.
I say the stupidest shit when I'm stoned, and I've learned to not really care. I get more social, and I've found ways to be social without talking to much - if that makes sense. Just don't sit in a corner by yourself - move around and do stuff. Participate in whatever activity is going down and you might find it easier to come into the conversation
don't worry about saying the right thing just be high and talk who cares if it makes no sense. If u say something dumb and someone laughs laugh wihlth them
I tend to be more quite when I'm just moderately stoned, like a typical high. But when I get really blazed I actually talk more. Although I'll say completely crazy nonsensical stuff to a person a barely know, and I'll often think "did I really just say that" then I'll forget about it all together.
it didnt have the facial expression i wanted... anyways, good to know CREAM. yeah. like if someone says something funny, laugh. Don't be shy, people dont like shy people. Ok it's cute for a girl, but being shy isnt gonna help you out, so just enjoy your high, talk it up, and if it sounds stupid to you, it may not sound stupid to your friends, and if it is, everyone is gonna laugh, including you. Walk around too. Oh, and if all else fails, talk about your past times of being high.
I know how you feel, I am the same way sometimes.. If you have some friends with you I'm sure it'll help you be more sociable in those kinda situations.
i get quiet when i'm stoned sometimes too. i've gotten used to it. if can get your hands on some sativa buds, you shouldn't get as overly mellow. other than that, all i can think of is maybe through some xanax or alcohol into the picture.