He's not even going with her. I doubt he would drive us all the way up to Orlando and then not be able to go in. I don't blame him though. I wouldn't want to do it either lol He's actually upset about it because there's also this thing she's going to overnight up there with a DJ and some clubbing shit and he's worried she's going to get drunk and have guys rubbing up on her all night. So not only did she blow us off, she's blowing off her own boyfriend to whore around. I still don't understand how underaged people get drinks so easily! She's like 17 with no job and she drinks more often than I do, a 21 year old individual.
Like I said before, I don't really think all girls are psycho bitches, as you said. Just happens that a lot of them are. I've had only one really close girl friend in my entire life. I'm sure one day I'll find another. It kind of sucks that the only person I can share everything with is my boyfriend. I need something apart from him.
I've had this happen so many times. People say they want to go to an event with you, and the time comes and it's "oh I didn't get a ticket" " I decided not to go". Then you are left with an expensive ticket and a solo evening when the fact that other people are going is half the reason you are going. Who wants to party alone? If you really want to go, I am with Orison's suggestion, you and the bf should find a way to get there, and have your good time anyway.
Yeah, you're right. Once we get a car thing will be so much better. We can plan things and actually have it happen, because most of the time you can't depend on other people. I mean..you can. But not just anyone. If this flaky girl weren't involved, everything would've gone smoothly.
If a guy doesn't like somebody, he's much more likely to be open and honest about it. Most girls would rather have some kind of crazy drama going on behind the scenes, and everybody is supposed to choose sides. That's why I haven't had many female friends over the years. I have a small number that I've known for a long time. Mostly, I've chosen to hang out with the guys. It's also easier to work with guys. Girls in an office can never get along.
Its interesting, surveys say that the vast majority of women would prefer a male boss. And few men hate men the way some women don't trust/like women. I'm met absolute dogshit from both sexes. There's certain idiotic types of men. And certain slimy, pathetic types of women. And ofcourse good in both sexes. There's also certain men these days that are as "bitchy" as the stereotype of bad women.
Then how did I get any female friends at all? :toetap05: If you look at my HF friends list, it's mostly guys, but not 100%.
Yup, same here. I've known people of both sexes who were manipulative psychos. No gender has a monopoly on negative behaviour traits. It's the species that's the problem, not the gender. lol
I understand that completely. Even with my bad experiences, I never turn down the opportunity to make a new girl friend. I didn't hesitate to try and be this girl's friend but it didn't work out. I posted this when I was still really pissed. But after I cooled off, I just said whatever. Whenever this kind of drama happened before, I just chalked it up to the fact that they just don't want to be my friend. That's fine, but I'm not going to sit there and pretend I'm still her friend. I won't hang out with phonies.
I agree 100% with you, Karen J! The men I don't get along with are those asses that act like women. Otherwise and all in all, women are usually all about keeping drama going, and they usually do NOT like a woman like me that is NOT about drama, schemes and lies. Of course all of this is in r/l...not here at HF. The women I've encountered here truly seem to be different than those I've met and dealt with "outside".
I agree about the last part especially. I mean, this isn't school or work where just anyone is going to be there. This forum would only attract certain types of people. And pretty much every girl here I've met is really awesome. I even have one on Facebook. We have similar experiences in life and she's a cool friend. I just wish everyone I knew here would be closer. I'd have a fantastic group of friends to hang out with.
You finally see the light. The stereotypical woman is far more troublesome than a "stereotypical man" (whatever that may be). Men are pretty straightforward with their disdain. The way some girls go about theirs is so seedy and heart-wrenching it just fucks up your day. You wonder how they can be so stupid, clueless to anything around them. Ah.. this is bad. To the ladies who think I'm beyond jaded and bitter, I still get excited at the idea of meeting an attractive straightforward woman.. so all hope is not lost.
I used to think that too, but I've found the opinions and perspectives here to be all over the place. I've had people say I was too liberal and too conservative, when they were talking about the same post! I've also received positive and negative rep votes on the same post. Strange. Interesting! I haven't had that experience at all. At least not the second part. Ah, those are easy enough to ignore.
Passive-aggressive drama and backstabbing. Uh-huh...been getting a bit of that at the office lately...from my own boss even. Brilliant woman, but it's hard to transcend our chemicals, innit? Maybe easier for some than for others... Is it time to call "drama?" You're a WHAT??? I'm going to need to seriously re-evaluate our relationship! Oh, wait, we don't have a relationship do we...would you like one? After all, if you've seen one dick you've seen 'em all. Well, unless you're a true connoisseur, of course.
Not even close. A true bitch has bigger throw-downs before breakfast every day. But seriously, it's never a bad thing to get a clarification of what somebody meant. Asking a question is a lot better than assuming. I value them more for what they can do. You like it when the plumbing in your house works perfectly, but does that make you want to rush down into the crawlspace to stare at it every day? :rofl: