Sorry, but I hate little kids. They're so socially awkward, generally impolite, loud, and cruel to their peers. There's absouletly NO WAY I will ever want to reproduce. Ever.
be safe then!!!!!!!!! they can be ok - if you know how to treat them and im my little world you are still a kid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This makes me sound so bitter, though. I'm really a warm hearted guy, but hey, I just don't like to deal with little kids. And it's not like I act condescening to them, either. It's just the fact that I generally don't want their company.
hehe i generally don't like kids from age 10-16 when they're from 4-9 they can be really weird and say the most fucked up things. at 10-16, they can still be really weird and say the dumbest things. but they're just figuring shit out... then again, maybe they're just in a transitional period of having everything figured out but being forced into confusion in order to "grow up" and live with all these crazy fucking ideas of what reality is.
naa they can be nasty sometimes bloody hell my neice tonight, damn she was a cow she can be so gobby sometimes lol - kids are kids, i was like it, everyone is like it - the way of life
i pretty much despise OTHER people's kids. that's a pretty common problem. "my little girl is perfect, an angel, all the other kids are evil minions of satan." seriously. that's what you hear again and again. and you're also only 16. when i was 16 i figured kids were only good as hors d'ouevres.
i can't stand little kids either.. but i know that if i'd have one i'd love it to death. i really shouldn't be saying that i don't like kids though cause i'm still a kid myself lol
I was never a big fan of kids and then I had one. Now I wouldn't trade them for the world. I think what my problem was is the same one you have... the rude factor, the bitchy-ness ect. I've noticed people are too loose on their kids. Not all have to be horrible rotten brats. I've been determined to raise mine to be polite always. Since one years old both of them say please, thank you, your welcome, no thank you, nice to meet you(and this is done without spanking, force or raising my voice to yelling). They were taught to show compassion, ask if they can ask a question and share. My kids know while in public you are to stay by mommy and ask nicely if you'd like something. They have small chores and are never bought unnessicary things unless there is a specific reason, otherwise they spend their "allowance" on it. Treat them with love, respect and like humans (aka ditch the dumb baby talk). The whole reason kids are so rude is because their parents are rude. A rude world produces nasty childern and its horrible. I'm generally not a big fan of other people's childern. I hope people's general attitudes change soon... it would make a huge change on our society. Too bad it probably won't happen, lol.
that's exactly how i would want to raise my kids! i hope i'll be as good mommy as you are you're an inspiration earthy_mama.
thank you sweetie! *blush* I think you'll be a good momma, you have a heart and as long as you have the kindness to show to them, it can only rub onto your kids.
I don't so much hate kids as much as I hate the parents that let their kids run wild and don't/refuse to discipline them.