i hate the dude.

ive had this friend ive known for about 5 years give or take, and honestly i cant stand the motherfucker.

you cant trust him for shit, hes always stealing, trying to manipulate people out of money, and taking things and selling them for WAY more than worth.

even tried to blame me for a pretty big theivery on his part, which i had not shit to do with.

and everytime i get around the dude, its just me me mem em ememe, he wont shut the fuck up man. you try to talk about something you're interested in or what you have been into, he just quits paying attention and when you stop talking, oh its back to memememememememememememe.

say you have an opinion, that is different, which we all do, cant just agree to disagree, hes gotta get pissed off and try to fight about it, its like dude so what we see things different, no need to get all worked up.

expects you to always share with him, say you have a cigarette or some smoke, oh yeah dude its all good i can share, but when you ask for something, oh hell no its not happening.

i would describe him as a stingy, arrogant, traitor fuck head.

ah anyway he was a good friend for many years now hes an asshole, so my confession is i hate a "good friend" of many years.

 

Okay. Cool. Good luck man.


This is a picture of the wind...

 

bareeezeeeee.

lol.

i just had to vent.

 

This is so weird. I had a friend who was just like that. But, I got fed up with her shit and told her how it was. I haven't talked to her in four months and I don't plan to ever again. I got to where I could NOT stand this bitch.

We had been friends for about nine years. This bitch LIED constantly, she stole from me (cds, clothes, even money), everything was always about HER. Anytime I tried to talk about myself she showed zero interest then would quickly turn the conversation back on her. She constantly wanted to be the center of attention. She is a big manipulator too and always played the victim. She was also a big talker and had a mouth on her.. but when it actually came to throwing down she was the biggest wuss I'd ever seen. Sometimes I just wanted to beat her up myself. She is very opinionated and it really is HER way or the highway. I just got sick of it.

The last straw was when I was at her house one night and they all were drinking. Her boyfriend went animal crazy and started bashing in the walls and acting fucking crazy. She was drunk, high and didn't know what was going on. During the commotion her boyfriend was making her three year old kid woke up several different times and came running into the living room crying and scared. Then this drunk animal acting BF of hers had their year old baby in his hands and he fell with her. I don't know how the baby wasn't injured. On that night I realized what a horrible mother she was, what a horrible friend.. and how I did not want to be around her ever again.

Like I said, I haven't talked to her in months and I don't plan to ever again. She was a major drag in my life and dead weight that needed to be shed.

My advice to you is Freedom_Man is to stop hanging out with this guy. Find yourself a better friend. All your doing is building up resentment on this dude and it's not healthy. It's a drag on your life. I found this shit out the hard way. You will find your life is so much better without that negativity.

 

i cant really get the dude off my mind these last few days, its like should i try to show him as much love as possible, or should i just get buck as hell on him for all the shit hes pulled? or neither, i dont know.

we have been GOOD friends to him, if he needed a pill and i had it, i would no doubht hook him up FREE, smokes or bud, here dude no problem, and hes kinda deseperate for relationships and i tried to introduce him to female friends of mine, that he could grow friendships with and maybe find a good match. and also warn him about some of the girls he was messing with, one was a straight up DOPE WHORE, we were like dude over and over again, she is fucking around on you for dope, really sick shit. and this other i was like man shes always talking shit on you when your not here, shes fuckin multiple dudes(even tried to with me nu uh), and tryin to say she likes you, we tried to warn him about these sluts, but he took the word of some fuckin hoez over his friends he even got mad at us for warning him. he got fucked outta all his money... just cause he didn't wanna listen to us. this dosen't make me mad, it just makes me feel like, dude you dont even trust your friends enough when they're trying to help you out man.


and hes stole so much shit from so many people and tried to steal some of my shit as well, now this pisses me off, i forgive you know and hope he changes, but should i really have him around if that is a risk factor?

do i have to fraternize with people just because of my nice nature and how jesus taught forgive and forget and love your neighbor as you love yourself values i hold dear, or is there a point where you just finally gotta say enough is enough?

 

i have a friend like that she a total bitch. she never want to talk about anyone but herself shes super selfcentered. she also a huge hater one time she cut my bangs and fucked them all up and i swear she did it on purpose but whatever im over her bullshit. if i were you id just not be friends with that dude sounds like a total ass.

 

drop em and find a new friend

 

yeah dude fuck him. ill just drop the dumb motherfuckers and stick to some true friends.

 

hang out by moving train, push him under it...

 

he sounds like a narcissist

 

Freedom_Man, this guy is the way he is and believe me when I say he won't change. I stayed friends with the girl I mentioned for nine years and she never changed. During her hard times I was there for her, I went out of my way to help her. Did she ever really return that type of friendship to me? Never. I would give her advice and would she listen no? She had to learn shit the hard way. I couldn't tell her anything without her getting all defensive. If she had listened to me she wouldn't have two kids she can't support, she wouldn't be living in the place she's living, she wouldn't be doing the things she doing, she wouldn't be putting her kids through all of it.

After I figured out it was this chick stealing shit from me I never really wanted to bring her to my home... and if we just had to go there I never left her alone. I always watched her.. Then one day I realized.. why the heck am I doing this? If she was any kind of a friend she wouldn't be trying to steal my stuff... if she was any kind of a friend I would trust her around my things and not worry that she was going to steal it.

I, too, am nice natured.. I don't want to hurt peoples feelings, I don't want to start drama.. I don't like to start problems, etc etc. But there comes a time when you need to stand up for yourself. I am glad that I finally had enough of her shit and told her how it was. I stood up for myself and I think it shocked the hell out of this chick. I don't think she knew what hit her.

All I can tell you is listen to your gut. I ignored mine for nine years and look where it got me. I had built up so much resentment against this girl that it just ate away at me. It was so much negativity. Now, that I got it all off my chest and am no longer friends with her, my life is so much better.

Just do what you got to do. I hope it all works out for you.

 

I've never understood how people can be friends with someone they can't stand. Seriously, life's too short. Get a new friend.

 

quit being such a pussy and tell dude to fuck off.

 

As much as I hate to agree with this, it makes as much sense as anything. If he doesn't think his douchebaggery is going to cost him anything he won't have any reason to change. Clearly he doesn't value the "friendship" as much as you do- that alone should say something.

 

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stinky has a point. it's easy for your friend to be an asshole because you let him walk all over you. be an asshole back, he might realize the error of his ways. or not. either way you won't have to deal with a douche friend anymore- problem solved.

 

I love that movie. I actually watched it last night.

 

Nope.

 

i had a freind like that he lifed down the street and acted like a jerk he would say "noooooooo" to his mom i mean ive never unless i was answering a question and when i had a stray dog he tried to kick it and then pick it up & it snapped at him then he got a baseball bat sised stick & tried to hit it (he chased it through yards & i finaly grabed the stick & bopped him on the head) and he ran home (him not the dog) then when my forgivefull self would tell him go home i want to read a book i want to be alone wit my family he plopped on the couch and i had to throw him out and the final straws were when he stole a game (xbox) from me and it didnt work anyway but he just ewanted it but he stole it the week that i was going to get it repared (i liked the game) it was gone & he returned it and said he "acidentaly sto.. took it with him from a week ago and the final thing was when i forgave him and he wouldnt leaVE & he fught me to stay inside because i wanted him out and he untied his shoe laces so he could sit down to tie them and when i finally kicked him out and said im not your freind anymore ever he sat on my porch ringing the door bell,knocking on the door< and trying to open the window all while chanting its a free country i do what i want and it caried on like thant for an hour and we finally moved away from that phyco about an hour away (thank god)

 

ahh yeah theres no sense in hating someone and wasting my time or trying to hurt someone, i should just forget man... im not obliged to be everyones friend.