I hate the fact that I'm still a virgin and that I've never had a girlfriend before

I absolutely hate this. Everyone around me right now has already lost their virginity, is in a relationship...ahhh FUK I'm going crazy, I can't take this any fucking more. And I'm working tomoroww, I so don't feel like going and school is starting soon..man. Why me? God I hate this and please don't say, well you're young or you'll find your love one day( that might be in 5 years from now). I've met two girls that became friends with me and asked me if I was a virgin, what was I supposed to tell them? I just told them the truth in shame. I hate this so fucking much. I just can't get this off my head, it bugs me too much and I'll be 18 next December. No NO...this is bad.

Other teens lose their virginity at 14-15 and me..aha me still a fucking one. I guess seriously, the only one you can count is yourself, no help, no nothing. Fuk I just wanna kill myself, not only because of this, of everything, school, life, society, how everyone is, how people function. Ah..but the truth is, what I really want is to love and feel loved.The virgin issue is important too though..

Why am I like this? And please, if you're gonna make fun of me, then spend you're time somewhere else. I am going no where with my pathetic life, hell why can people just be people? Just fuck this..

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buck up, laddo. in my opinion it's okay to be a virgin until you're about 20 or so.

 

If you really want love, then isn't waiting for a person that you actually love to loose your virginity to sound like a better idea?

Anyhow. Think about it... lets say you have some sloppy drunk sex tomorrow night. You loose your virginity. What will that actually change?

If you dislike this society, then don't let it pressure you into having sex for no apparent reason.

You will loose your virginity, sooner or later. If you really really really want to loose it desperately, then just approach more girls. Some will reject you, and you will just have to learn to live with rejection. It's not really that big of a deal when you realize that there is just such a ridiculous number of women out there.

You seem like a nice guy... so it's honestly their loss. I'm sure that you'll find a couple of girls who are similar to you and with whom you can easily connect if you go to college.

Till then... you just have to realize that being a virgin isn't a big deal at all unless you make a big deal out of it.

 

So you're still a virgin. Big deal! I always get a laugh over how the concept of sticking one's genitals into someone else's is like this rite of passage in western culture. People feel because society is oversaturated with sex, they are somehow inferior because they're not part of the hype. Sex really is overrated. And no, I am not saying that because it's something that lacks in my own life.

Like John Lennon said:

They keep you doped with religion
and sex and TV
And you think you're so clever and classless and free
But you're still fucking peasants as far as I can see

Sex, like religion, is another opiate of the masses and is being used to dumb people down and distract them from things that are real, that matter. The more oversexed our society becomes, the less interested in it I become.

 

put yourself out there!! get off the computer and get some ladies! be confident too, this is easier said than done...but take it from me, girls really dig a guy whos sure of himself

 

It will happen, just relax and dont rush it.

 

plenty of great girls in Canada man

 

You're suffering the same thing everyone is, no one wants to be alone forever, it only feels worse then it is because you haven't had a taste yet. As bravesir said, you could go put yourself out there alot more and you WILL have sex, the same applies to finding a girl friend.

The reason why i havent been laid in ages is because i don't put myself out there, therefore i realize that i am not going to meet anyone interested in me and vice versa. Personally (you're finishing school this year right? you're 17 so i am assuming) i would concentrate on my studies and wait until college or whatever you're doing after highschool to worry about that stuff, a bad relationship set my studies back about 3 years so it isn't always that great a thing.

 

...let me say that you are not the only one. i mean, i've had a boyfriend before, but i was never kissed let alone had sex with anyone. you are not the only one. don't worry about it, you'll have your day. just relax, take it easy, no rushing things. you might be a little lonely and feel left out of the whole non-virgin crowd, but at least you haven't gotten herpes, the clap or other various STD's. there's always a "thank god i didn't do that" side to the story. =] not all teenage girls are a safe bet...

 

i agree with what everyone is saying, dude don't rush things
i didn't have sex til after high school, i never even kissed a boy til i was like 18
and i've never had a boyfriend to this day
it's not something that has me terribly concerned though

i mean everyone gets lonely, god i know how lonely feels, me and lonely are good friends, but i know that when the time is right things will work themselves out

have faith in yourself

 

dont feel so bad man, last year, i think, my friend girl-friend asked me if i was a virgin. i said "Yeah". she was cool with it, im sure everyone is understanding about it. unless they throw it your face. then thats just fucked

 

Virginity? I can't remember where I put the damned thing. -Anonymous

Take it easy. Virginity isn't something to be coveted nor is it something you have to shed as soon as possible. Just find a nice girl you like spending time with. These things work themselves out.

 

virginity is a bullshit notion. i never got it's importance, whether in keeping it or losing it. don't stress it. do what you do and it all works out in the end. needing it so much is kinda scary, unless you can find an older woman who would enjoy divesting you of it, or some kind hearted girl willing to just do it. maybe that would help you get rid of the importance you place on it, getting rid of it like a wart on your hand, i suppose. wanting to kill yourself over it, however, is only an indication of your sexual frustration. i imagine it could get very annoying.

 

You are actually not that old at all to be a virgin. I first had sex maybe a month before I graduated from high school. There is no reason to feel embarrassed about it

don't put too much pressure on yourself, it will just make you miserable

 

and it's likely to freak out the girls, we can smell it.

 

hahaha, i second that, hornballs are not good...unless you get those understanding few. which we are usually more understanding of that until the guy overdoes it, that will freak us out.
i'm pretty sure your common decency can tell you how far you can go before you have gone to far, you know?

 

"Desperation is a STINKY cologne." Super Troopers

 

No kidding. It's some aniquated shit about conquering women.

I prefer whips to conquor mine. Different strokes.

Seriously though, it is such not anything to worry about. And it's better not to be constantly thinking about sex at his age anyway. I'd have done better in school.

 

Adding onto the "its not that significant" side of things.

Relax, go with the flow...

Bangin every chick in sight doesn't make you a better person, in fact its probably gonna make it burn when you pee, while you pass on the favor until you realize whats goin on.

You are an individual, do as you please and show no concern to social acceptance... that goes both ways.

 

you mean you weren't srious about the whips?

i've developed a fondness...