Hey, thanks for viewing this. I posted a similar problem I had way back last summer in the beggining, but I've dated a girl since. Well, I am a Junior in High School, and I already feel that I have strong feelings for a girl in my school; I know her well and she does too. I have a feeling that if I ask her too date me, she'd day yes, but then that feeling of rejection kicks in. I don't know why. Oppurtunity always comes knocking on my door with this girl, but I just never answer it... I seem too flirt back and forth with her, it's almost as though I can't find a way too ask her out. She is the most beautiful thing in the world in my eyes, and I would not even want her for sex like most people in my school want their girls for. I know she's had sex and all, in fact with one of my old friends many times but she is just not a sluty person. Question is: What is the best way too ask this girl out? I feel that if I ask her out than I just might ruin a good thing, but then I can hear someone saying ''then she's not worth it'' but really she is. I have already considered that I would ''never know, if I never ask'' , but I just want too ask you all for your guidance; it helped last time. [I know I am a Junior, but there is something I feel different in this girl aside from others...]
i think you should just grab the opertunity in both hands and take the plundge. the last thing you want to do is look back on it in years to come and wonderabout what could have happened. good luck {{{hugs}}} l xxx
Carpe diem. If you don't know what that means, look it up. If you don't ask her, nothing will happen. If she says yes, you have accomplished what you want. If she says no, it can be for any number of reasons, some unrelated to you. And like a girl I dated in high school, when I got up enough courage to ask her to the prom, she replied, "what took you so long?" Every guy your age has the same problem - so just gulp and go ahead and ask her.
at first, I thought this dude said he was in junior high school, and I was like DAMNNNNN oh wait dude, you sound like this kid I know, and he is in the same situation with my sister. same age and everything. wait...... alex???
theres a good chance shes thinking "wth is taking him so long" (as someone said). so go and ask her out, now. dont wait til another guy asks her out. if she says no, then u will know where u stand and u wont have any regrets. if she says yes, then woohoo
oh okay good. Cause if you were, I would hunt that kid down and rip off his nut sack for even THINKING of fucking my sister, and I would yell at my sis for having sex so young. but since your not, I wish you best of luck with your situation, and I am deeply sorry for you
You "seem to flirt back and forth with her?" As in, you're talking to each other? Good! Because the best way to ask any girl out is really the only way: the direct approach. Flirt with her all you like, come up with any reason to talk to and/or hang out with her if that's what you think you should do, but when all's said and done, you just have to gather your courage and ask her out. Best of luck to you, and don't come back here until you've done what you want so much to do! :spliff:
