The question is, should I ask her about it? I know for a fact she does it and she has smoked with my step brothers before. Something tells me though that she'll deny it and tell my mom. But then again, I don't know.
What do you mean by "ask her about it"? If you mean like, ask her to give you pot, then definitely no, she's your mom's friend first, your friend second! If you mean that you just want to ask her about it, I'd say there's no harm or danger in doing that. Don't bring it up by saying "Hey I know you smoke pot, what's it like blah blah blah" I would just start by saying something like, you can't talk about pot with your mom because it'd be awkward. And if she tells your mom that you asked her about it, just say something like "I didn't want to talk about it with you because it's weird to talk about that kind of stuff with your mom." Something along those lines.
Hey man, I'm not really sure about things in your neck of the woods... but if its at all like life is here... than really... no big deal.. I'm 40, most people I know smoke... I can probably count on one hand only the people I know that don't smoke... Most people do... and dude... hate to break it to you.. but I would probably say your mom may smoke too... I think you would be very very very supprised to know who smokes these days...
I don't know, people react differently, she might not want other people to know about it. But if you really want it proved, ask your friend to ask his mom for a sample and see what shes smoking.
Aw man, I know that my mom, uncles and aunts (on both sides of family), all used to smoke, and I think an uncle or two still does...
Well I have seen the weed before in their house. And my step brothers have told me that they have smoked with her and her husband. And to top it off, her husband had a hole in his shirt and he joked and said "must be a seed burn." now come on, what else could that mean?
you might as well ask. obviously they are relatively relaxed about it, but just be discreet about it, just incase.