I like to be watched and arouse someone when masterbating...

So i guess its sorta one if my things, kinks if you will. Im an attractive pluse size woman and found out a few years back that i really enjoy rubbing on my pussy and using dildos, clit suckers a d vibraters while doing it. But i especially love it when a man watching me, and is aroused by me and will jerk himself off to me

Ive tried all the sites that pop up when searching for someone to do this with. All i ever get are sites full of women doing there cam show things and they charge. There are absolutly ZERO platforms/sites for women who are horny and like to be open about it. Whats up with that? I think there are actual alot more horny freaky women that barendown for one on one live mutual masterbation sessions with a stanger tyen you think. I feel like most women think they have to hold and hide those sexual urges or fantasies back in fear of being looked at like they are slutty or trashy.... fuck that, we need to do away with all that double standard bs it being ok for just men..... ok i went off on a bit of a rant... what i qas teyinf to get.at is wherw can i find a straight man who digs what im talking about i cant find anyyhing out there for a woman to masterbate for or with a male on a live video chat.. anything i font know about out there or any men interested in this, preferabley, you know... well hung in size who would like to watch a pretty pluse size woman go at it on herself while you please yourself for me......???​

 

Excellent

Welcome to hipforums!!

 

Excellent ....you write a great post. Its hard to rub one out and type so good night

 

Welcome to hip Rubu

I for one am very interested in both watching a woman tease and please herself as well as mutual masturbation, but have no idea where such an option exists.
If you find a venue I am sure you will have plenty of volunteers here to try it out with you.

 

Well there are plenty of men on her, including myself, that would love to watch and play with you.

 

I love to watch. One of my FWB occassionally has me come over just so we can watch each other masturbate. Lots of fun to watch her get herself off.

 

I had a work colleague who I shared some wonderful mutual masturbation sessions with. It all started after she brought up the subject of porn at a work happy hour. Within a few hours we were in my basement watching her favorite porn star on my TV. She only watched me that night but subsequent sessions she played as well. It was always fun...we would take our time, enjoy the moment, talk about the scenes, some real life experiences, and then get off at the same time.

 

I was just recently talking about this with a female friend and my female cousin. We were talking about cybersex. I've only done it twice. But I learned about it from my older sister who's really into it and has been since we first got internet when I was in middle school and my sister was in HS in the mid-90s.

Back then, it was the golden age of cybersex, which was all just through chats. No video. Because the only porn online were still images and they were slow to load. So it was more practical to masturbate to message boards or with people over instant message. So, a lot of people did it, since it just made more sense and anyone else you met online who wanted to masturbate to something online basically asked if you wanted to try cybersex.

First time I tried it was on my own with a girl I met on a teen message board for asking questions about masturbation and general body curiosity questions. I was 16 and she was 13 and I felt really weird about the age difference. I also came immediately. So for my second time, I asked my sister to help me. She took me to a chatroom she used for finding partners and helped me find a 15 year old girl in England. Told me what to say and ask and she and I had cybersex. (I still came super fast. LOL!)

Then my sister showed me what she does. Found some guy, and showed me what she says and talks about to make it sexy for her and the guy and got off. I thought it was interesting but not my thing. I liked masturbating in person and over the phone with girls more. So I've mostly stuck with that. Done it on FaceTime with friends a few times. That's great. I just can't stop touching myself to type every few seconds. It's hard to stay hard constantly interrupting my flow. Hahaha.

Last I knew of where people were mostly finding masturbation partners online was chat roulette. Nowadays, I'm guessing it's mostly message boards like this.

 

I remember those early internet masturbation chats! Of course, I knew in the back of mind the masturbating woman I was chatting with might be essentially a fictional character, the fantasy was enough to get me off. It was highly erotic to be sharing in real time that I was masturbating. When I'm jacking off and about to cum, I often get a rush of feeling that I want the whole world to see me, to know what a solosexpert masturbator I am. Sharing that you are a masturbator can be a real thrill--posting on this forum gets me hot.

For me, the hottest form of masturbation is doing it while being watched. As a teenager, I often made myself cum to the fantasy of jacking off in the middle of one of Betty Dodson's female masturbation circles.