i lost my g/f.....how can i get her back

i broke up with my g/f, of 8 months, we both stated that we didn't know each other that well, and that our whole relationship was only based on fooling around,........she wants to be friends for now and to get to know each other better, then we can try to go out together again, until then how can i try to get her back without waiting?

 

like you agreed to do, get to know eachother more, and eventually your relationship will grow into something more

 

how long should i wait beforei ask her out again?
i was thinking i would ask her out again in a monththe day of her birthday (Oct 31)

 

Do you believe you know her better now than you did before? and can you talk about absolutley anything at all?

 

what do oyu mean ifi know her better now?
we broke up last friday.

 

haha sorry i read that wrong, I thought it said "I broke up with my gf 8 months ago". I would wait awhile until you get to the point where sexual desires are secondary

 

i understand that sexual desires are not to be used every single time we see each other.

 

do you guys share a relationship at an intellectual level as well?

 

what do you mean?

 

do you guys talk and share opinions or even argue sometimes?

 

another reason why we broke up is because i wasn't being open to her, like when something is bothering me, i never told her, i always kept it to myself, and yes we did fight alot,and i mean alot, if we weren't fighting we were fooling around.

 

arguing is healthy to a certain extent, but it sound like your was not so healthy. You need to be ablr to open up to her and trust her, and if you cant do that, then your relationship isnt going to progress.
Or you could just find another girl. What attracts you to this one in the first place?

 

what attacted me to her was that she was my first g/f, and i only want to be with her, nobody else, and she's special to me, how we found each other is kinda funny, i met her friend in a msn chat room, then we started to talk then she introduced me to her friend which is now my ex, and we talk on the phone for hours upon hours, then at christmas time we both decided to meet each other at boxing day, at onof the malls near each other, and i was just blown away when i saw her.....since thne i can't get her out of my mind.

 

how old are you? Everyone feels that way about their first love. Very rarley do they marry. I think you should try meeting new people. If not, then I would wait longer than a month to get back together

 

i'm 19.she's 17

i thin ki'm just going to ask her for a another chance, and tell her that i'mready to be in a serious relationship, and to be more open and to tell her what's on my mind,when things are bothering me.

 

if you feel thats what you should do, then go for it

 

i just called her and she said she'll consider it.

can i add you to my msn if you have one?
tabbs_boi@hotmail.com

 

sure if you would like

 

ok, what is your msn address?

 

lectriceccentric@msn.com