I met a man online and really made him work at just getting a first date with me. Long story short, he is amazing, we have a really great connection, he is hands down the best person i have ever dated. We have been dating just over 3months, and in my opinion if you love someone you know, i know i love him. I do everything on my cell phone and dont really use facebook all that often but yesterday my best friend asked why my relationship status was still "single" so i went on to change it and to add him to let my online world know i had started a relationship with this amazing man. Now, this all sounds like a rambling story i know but heres my problem; when i search and find his page i find out he is engaged and she is pregnant! So now i'm hurt and confused and unsure what to do. He says he loves me and is only still with her until the babies are born but what the hell?!? So i guess turning to friends/family at this point i cant do b/c i'm feeling rather stupid, so do any of you have any advice here?
Did he tell you about the upcoming baby and engagemant himself or did you have to find out yourself? If he didn't tell you himself then what does that tell you about the person he is and how honest he will be in the future?
My advice - lose the **** asa!.He is truly a piece of work! You have to think - would he ever have told me about his real stuation? If he cared it would have been one of the first things he told you? The man's a prick!
Te More like reality = the man I've been dating is an extremely good at hiding things and playing with what my emotions. My inner wise intuition is raising a red flag, I need help so I'm ask the internet with a veil anonymity because lingering emotions and logical intuition are in conflict. My advice: get out asap, this is huge to hide, and he met you online and has you waiting on him to break up while having a claim on you. 1. This is the oldest trick in the book because it comes across as "I desire you" to counter a girl's early red flags. 2. You met him online and met him in real life within a year...way too soon for a first accurate reading on a person. I bet you haven't hired anybody to do a background check. 3. Its possible he's a sociopath, so get out now before he gets you cornered.
Ditto on the LOL I cant understand why it would be so hard for you to get dates with guys that dont have a pregnant fiance
1 Tell him you have every STD in the book, and he should get tested, innoculated, immunised, quarantined and hospitalised ASAP. 2 THEN dump him. "I'm only staying until the babies are born" (I'm assuming twins?) is the same as "My wife doesn't understand me" or "We're just good friends but we stay married" or "I'll leave as soon as the kids are in school/out of school/got jobs/whatever". It's a LIE. Get out, and soon. And thank your stars that you discovered him for the low, sheep stealing, cow rustling, doggone ornery card cheater that he is. (sorry, I watch too many westerns....)
I just hope you didn't rub Pretty Ricky in the face of any good guys that showed interest in you during these last three months. Sucks when that happens. For Example.. Me: hi there Chick: OMG I'm with Pretty Ricky, I can't talk to any guys now because he is so perfect. Me: O...............K Chick:OMG stop hating just because you want all of this right here. It belongs to Pretty Ricky and he's gonna bang me three ways from Sunday in like 5 minutes. Me:*walks away happy and yet sad in the thought that she will eventually find out that Pretty Ricky is a piece of shit but that prick is gonna hit that and I would have been honest and good to her but I have to go home and jerk off now. Awesome.
Argh! What a douche! I agree, dump ASAP! It's a sad truth that internet relationships can so often turn out like this. I remember one guy I dated obviously didn't check who he was texting when he replied to a text I sent one night saying he was 'out with the other half'...yup he was married, lol.
i'm sure there is a reasonable explanation....probably one of his friends fucked with his facebook and he doesnt even know it yet...he sounds like an amazing guy and you should continue loving him and ''putting out'' until the day you die
