I just started giving my man head.. he's the only man I've ever been with.. and I want to make him think I'm a sex goddess. He seems really tense a lot of the time even though he swears he loves everything I do. What I'm getting to is that want him to be open about it and let me know what he likes best.. how can I help him with this? Every once in a while I get a snippet of his wild side.. and I crave it! I think he's mostly uncomfortable with his cum.. 'cause he cares about me and thinks I'd be way uncomfortable with it.. but I'd be happy to try swallowing it or something.. I always lick his precum, anyways. I want more than anything to give him unbridled pleasure.. I want to make him weak in the knees like he does to me.. I know I turn him on but I want him to know that I completely and totally worship his cock. I haven't ever pleasured anyone before so I'm probably not the most... amazing... but I really want him to think I am.. to make him see stars.. because I care about him more than anything. Does anyone have any advice?
Tell him it's no big deal, he's going to squirt a load of it in you through your vagina - mouth's no different. Then start crawling ALL over him, licking him in very untraditional places, making sounds to encourage him. And for pete's sake tell him you like wild. He may be repressed and untreatable (mom won.) Then you'll need a new boyfriend or face frustration all your life. Sorry, but that's the truth!
I think an open talk is needed, where you tell him your wishes and preferences. If he is very uncomfortable with these things, you should not spring everything at once but tell him gradually. Then, of course, alcohol helps to overcome inhibitions.
