I really don`t want to wait for marriage, but I do want to wait until I find the one. I`m almost 18 & I kind of feel silly for not losing it yet, though I feel like love is a BIG part to sex. Anyways, sex isn`t just about "getting it on" to me. I think it`s about making love. Am I missing out on a teenage experience by waiting for my true love, or do you think it`s a pretty good thing that I`m doing? (I mean, my body is my temple & I treat it as so.) :love:
Agreed, wiating is good! Your body IS important and so is the desicion of when and who to have your first experience.
Ur 17 u should still be playing with toys leave sex for ur twenties it's much more fun when the holes and shlongs are experienced
For fucks sake there is nothing special about losing your virginity...it's just sex. I don't see why people make such a big deal out of it. Do what you want.
I wouldn't take back the awkward moment at 16 in the backseat of my 72 Maverick parked beside the local park with cher blaring on the radio back for nothing.
Couldn't agree more. Way too much of a big deal is made about losing your virginity, especially by young people. As if you haven't lost it by a certain age, there must be something wrong with you. I'm still a virgin, and much older than the OP, and that suits me just fine. Lose it when you're ready.
my body is a temple... it's full of jews. seriously, if you don't lose it while you're young you may never get a chance to. adult women generally don't want to date a virgin.
I think that it is a big deal because of STD`s & because I`m a very romantic person. I just feel like I`m missing out on a spontaneous teenage moment, ya know. My hands are tied.
If I find my soul mate, yes. I just want an emotional/love connection to make it worth it. I`m just not love lucky.
you should probably wait until you're a little more experienced before you get into that kind of sex.
Wait for someone good, but I've got a feeling that waiting for "the one" might be a very bad idea. You know, there are many fish in the sea, so how can you find "the one"?
You`re absolutely right about that..... I`m still waiting for my ex (the love of my life) to decide what he wants. That`s the young man I wanna give my lovin to. So if I love him, & he loves me; there`s no reason not to. :love: