I need some advice

Discussion in 'Parenting' started by CharliBrown, Jan 28, 2006.

  1. CharliBrown

    CharliBrown Member

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    Or some questions answered. First off about a week ago I got drunk with some friends and one of my guy friends took advantage of me. I blacked out so I don't remember a damn thing about what we did. So is there any physical signs that we might of had sex? All I know is there could be a possibility of it. When I asked what went down that night all he said was that "Nothing happened except that we were messing around." But he confessed everything to my cousin. My next question is can a girl get her period when pregnant or am I just being paranoid.
     
  2. sugrmag

    sugrmag Uber Nerd

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    If you are really concerned, you should go to the doctor. If he "took advantage of you" while you were extremely intoxicated, he raped you.


    I would definitely go to the dr. to make sure. He/she should be able to determine it. You can get a pregnancy test and also you should test for std's.

    As far as the period ?, yes it is possibly to have a "period" while pregnant, but more than likely if you've had your period, you aren't pregnant. Good luck, sister.
     
  3. Maggie Sugar

    Maggie Sugar Senior Member

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    Honey, this is a rape, pure and simple. Rape is defined as forced intercourse, or intercourse with a womyn who cannot give consent. (Being intoxicated qualifies as not being able to give consent.)

    PLEASE, see a Planned Parenthood clinic. It is too late for a Morning After pill, but they can help you if the worst possible happens, and also, you should be tested for STDs.

    I am so sorry this happened to you.

    I was going to move this to woman's issues forum, but I don't want some of the peoplel there lecturing you, so I'l leave it here for now.
     
  4. CharliBrown

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  5. Panik

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    ugh, I'm sorry this happened to you as well. being too drunk around untrustworthy people is sooo dangerous. He does not seem like much of a friend?
     
  6. dancinattwilight

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    <<<<hugs>>>> I'm so sorry for what you must be going through.:(
    It may be too late for any physical signs of rape, unless he was unusually rough (i.e. bruises, soreness, tearing, etc.) Still you should definitely get checked out by a doctor. He can advise you on how to proceed, and direct you to a support group for victims of rape (if you chose to go that route).
    As far as your other question, my sister has 2 beautiful healthy children, and she had her period the entire time she was pregnant with both. So, thought it's not the norm, it does happen.
    I must say that I agree that he doesn't sound like any kind of friend, hon.
     

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