i hate my dad sometimes, i love him but hate him, rite my dad is a alcoholic he has been dry for 2 yrs, tonight i had a friend round me n him were kissing and he stormed in and said get out, this is my house, u live by my rules. then he woke everyone up by slamming my door and fuckin off. i do everything in the house from cleaning up after my brother to shopping, i have spoke to my mum and dad to ask them to clean up after themself and they ignore them, but them dad gets shitty cause the place is dirty, i cant move out cause i have my cat violet here, and i cant work cause i have to many things wrong with me.
Wiggy,that's awful. I don't know what to say,since you're sort of stuck. Could you get a place with a friend,somewhere that allows pets? I hope you feel better,anyways
Hey Hazel, Sorry I didn't see you on IM today, but I hope things get better for you. Did they ever find your sister's friend's sister? As for your dad, my parents are no picnic either, and I'm stuck living with my mom. I don't know how to solve my own problem, so I don't really know how to solve yours either, but I'm here for emotional support at least. And hey, if we both get crummy jobs in the same city, we could afford to move in together and then create a cheesy sitcom about the bizarre misunderstandings that develop... um, scratch that.
Im sorry to hear that... I think the best thing to do is have a sitdown with your parents to come to a resolution to this. But if you are insisting they dont listen, then the only way to solve your problem is move out. After all you are 21, and need to get out there. What could be preventing you from work? And if the problem is your cat, then you gotta get your priorities in order and do whatever it is you need to do to move out, OR find a place that allows pets, and like the post above mine, get some friends to move in with. Best of luck, I hope things work out better for you!
im feeling better now, i think it was just one of those times where its best to sleep on it and stuff, and i cant work cause i have quite alot of medical crap and it stops me from it n crap like that ----- ohh the joys
