I Never Really Masturbated the Right Way!

This has been something that I've been meaning to post a thread about for some time now. Firstly, I didn't ejaculate until I had my first wet dream when I was just shy of 17 years old. It took me a long time to figure out my own way of masturbating. The standard way with the hand just didn't work... I'd be horny as hell, but it just wasn't enough.

I didn't masturbate to completion until I was about 22 years of age! One morning when thinking about a girl, I lay on my side in bed, and put some blanket between my legs. I'd my pants off, and as I trusted the blanket my penis rubbed against the inside of the lower leg. This felt fantastic, and I was pretty sure that this set-up had what it took to get me to cum. Finally, after years of seeing scantily dressed women in magazine and TV, I was able to find a while to release those urges.

I think my preferring of this way has something to do with the shear thought that I'm actually humping something. After using this method for a while, I also realised that I actually preferred to wait for my penis to go semi-soft before trying to ejaculate. I think that when I was fully erect that the head of the penis moves too far down my leg to make good contact. Eventually I started to use two t-shirts; one under me, for the sake of the mattress, and another one to go around the part of the blanket that I'd hump. I also eventually began to use an old plastic shopping bag which I'd put underneath the bottom t-shirt... the reason being, that as I'd relax on the bed afterwards the semen would often get through the bottom t-shirt and leave stains on the sheets.

Does this sound unusual to anyone? Why is it that the standard way of rubbing the penis head with the hand, doesn't seem to work for me? It's like I have the male equivalent of the female orgasm problems that we hear about so often. You know the way we hear of women who can only cum in certain positions, or women who can't get off from their g-spot, can only do so from their clit, and vis versa.

I'm concerned about this now, as the one time I had sex I wasn't able to cum. Seeing as I was so eager to, I took of the condom even though she was a complete stranger. Is there any way I can acquire the taste for a new wanking style? Maybe I should buy an inflatable doll! Maybe I should try wanking with the condom on more often.

The other thing that might be able to get me off, would be if I lay on my belly with my cock rubbing against my stomach. This at least would some what similar to the missionary position. Maybe some time when I have the time, and when I'm really horny, I might try it.

 

I need help with this.

 

Try a fleshlight. Don't masturbate any other way. This will simulate vaginal sex more. Your penis can adapt.

 

I am going to do this soon. It's taken me a while as I could never have something like that posted. But I have identified a store that sells 'Eliza Ibarra' fleshlight. I'll probably hate it at first but hopefully I'll learn to like it.

The material might feel cold. Maybe if I put it into hot water first! Have you tried fleshlights?

 

Read the directions/suggestions. Take the sleeve out, soak it in warm water, put the sleeve back in, lubed up and stick your cock in it. Use your imagination on the different ways it can be fun

 

I never realized that there was a right or wrong way to masturbate??? I always felt that if you weren't hurting yourself and you can reach orgasm then you were doing it correctly. I think everyone has their own method or technique for getting themselves off and not every method works for everyone!!!!

 

I don’t think there is a wrong way, it’s whatever works for you.

 

Take your time and masturbate any way that you enjoy! There’s no right or wrong way to masturbate, it’s whatever feels good for you and helps you to enjoy yourself and ejaculate!

 

Obviously what the OP means this method of masturbation does not replicate sex, and if he is striving to enjoy sexual relations with women then he should first try and see if he can orgasm via the traditional masturbation technique.

 

I bought that in the end today. €100. I hope it's good

 

Okay so I tried it. It was better than expected, but perhaps I wasn't horny enough so I went back to the regular way to get off. I was worried it would do absolutely nothing for me, so thank God that's not the case. There might be the potential to cum with it.

 

So today I made history, when for the first time I ejaculated in a way that replicated real sex. Although I did need to use my usual method in order to get hard first. I humped the fleshlight as if I were in the missionary position. I will also admit that I needed a femdom video to get off, as femdom gets me extra horny.

The fleshlight would have been in a vertical position underneath me when I came. Going forward, I don't think I could just use my hand to hold to fleshligh in order to get off. There's something about thrusting your torso that makes a person (at least for me) more inclined to cum. When I went to wash out the fleshlight I opened the backside of it to see my semen leak out. I was so glad to see that!