I slept with my best friend...

Just to see what it was like.

I have very little romantic interest in him.

 

lost my virginty to mine when i was 14/15
didn't like him just wanted to get it over with

 

my fuck buddy became my best friend for a little bit, but then it just got weird, and now we hardly even talk.... oh well.

so what was it like?

 

LOL. I don't know. It was fine, I guess. There was a lot of sexual tension, so I figured instead of fighting it, we might as well just do it and get it over with.

We're both pretty laid back people, so we came to the understanding that we wouldn't let things get weird.

He's a very good looking dude, but I just don't see us having a long-term relationship, that's all. We get along TOO well...if that makes any sense.

 

i gotcha. might as well keep fucking him then!

 

*Shrugs* The novelty is over...

LOL

 

Does not. Explain.

Not meaning to offend; but that made me sad.

 

it gave me hope for my future children.

 

When two people are too much alike...it is not always a good thing. You are just too AGREEABLE. I tend to like someone that challenges me.

I also feel like I know him too well. I know how he will react to things, because I react the same ways. And since we are so much alike, I know what his downfalls, weaknesses, and vices are...

And since I don't like most of those things in myself, there's no way I would like them in another person!

 

that's exactly how it was for me and the fuck buddy I meantioned earleier. tends not to work out.

 

Oh okay, I got you now.

Yeah, I think you need to find someone that's a good balance of alike and different.
Maybe alike on the most core issues, and this or that interest, but then different everywhere else.

I can't even stand to be around people if I know how they will react in too many situations =P I find them boring, like reruns.

 

We have a great solid relationship. We've been friends for awhile now and have always had fun together (even before we slept together). I just really don't think it will ever go anywhere. And I'm TOTALLY Ok with that. Which is different for me...

 

Different can be quite a great thing at times =)

Just make sure he knows where you stand, you know where he stands, and no problems should arise.

And I mean, if you're that alike, he's TOTALLY Ok too =P

 

If he gets weird, I'll just punch him in the face.

And we will still be friends.

Cuz that is what we do.

 

Good friendship.

Really good friendship if you're packing some decent arm strength =P

 

We bond over squats and leg presses.

 

idk i would really like to sleep with my current best friend i have such a crush on him
but i dont think he's into me at all

 

DancerAnnie, I would like to become your new best friend.

 

With a quite a few of my female friends at parties or just if were out for the night we sleep together, whether its just as friends actually sleeping or fucking...that usually depends on drug/alcohol consumption though

Always been standard...gotten me in trouble before though.

 

I never thought of it that way, but it makes perfect sense.

You guys have a long-term relationship of sorts. Not a sexual one yet...