I think I'm starting to hate men.

I am so sick and tired of liars...people who say they'll be there for you...and then when something bad happens they have a million excuses about why it's not their problem.

The father of the baby that I miscarried is being an asshole. I am so sick of him dragging me through the mud...making me feel like my feelings are worthless. Apparently I should be handling this whole miscarriage alone. How dare he leave me out to dry like that??? Damn right I'm pissed off...to hell with men who promise things and say they'll be there for you. I should have known...every other man in my life has done the same thing. I'm really strongly starting to believe that the only person you can trust is yourself...

I know I shouldn't be a she-woman-man-hater...but sheesh...why is it that I always end up falling for men that are no good for me? I'm so tired of being hurt...and to hurt me worse during a time where I'm already so vulnerable...how dare he?

 

I'm sorry Annie.. I wanted to respond to your other post but I just didn't know what to say. The only advice I can offer, is to not settle for anyone, know yourself and be strong. If this guy is an asshole, fuck him. You don't deserve to be going through this alone, but it's better than listening to some ass hole bitching...

 

It's just really nice to know that he can go out and have all kinds of fun with all kinds of people and I'm sitting at home coping with the physical and emotional pain of losing a child...

And somehow it's all OK to say that I just "don't know him", so...I should just move on. What a dick.

 

don't hate men, hate men like him
it may be hard to believe at times, but we aren't all assholes
and I agree with mop, sometimes you just need to be there for yourself
don't worry, you will get through this

 

I know it must be hard, I mean I really dont know, but I can imagine. I do know that men handle things differently than we do, and if he is saddened by this happening, then he might deal with it by by being a jerk and doing things to piss you off. It's hard to give advice because I dont know him personally but I know if I got pregnant and had a miscarriage and a guy was trying to make me feel like shit about it, I would be like, fuck him. you are a beautiful person and deserve someone who will make you feel that way and you will never find him by being hung up on a guy who treats you like shit.

 

Yes, I know...it's nice to hear that from someone else. And the funny part is...I got out for the first time in four days yesterday with a friend from work...and I felt NORMAL. I felt GREAT. That should have been a sign to just deal with this on my own...instead of feeling like I should share my pain with the one other person that got me into this mess...

 

joy has said it so perfectly, and i couldn't say it better myself
annie you should know that even if the people you wished aren't there for you there are others here for you
i don't know you that well but you are gorgeous ad deserving of everything this world has to offer
i can not even begin to imagine how hard this must be
i'm so very sorry and wish you all the best
~much love and healing and most of all time and strength~

but also on a side note i'm totally along with you on the man hating

 

I'm thinking something along the lines of the "She-woman, Man-haters club", indiansummer...I think we should all share stories and sacrifice the worst of all the men...

Hey, in some countries it's legal.

 

If you are attracting these types of men, maybe the problem is you.

 

I'm sure that's the case...

That doesn't mean they don't play a part though. Guys shouldn't be jerks...girls shouldn't be jerks...it'd be nice just to have people treat eachother how they'd like to be treated...

 

yeah and in those countries we get to wear loin clothes and live in the jungle right?
i am so in
i've spent much of tonight just laying under the sky...
i wouldn't mind living among the earth and sacrificing men
are you to be the leader of our tribe?

 

No...we don't need a leader...that's what men need...women just need eachother

 

Can I join?

 

No. You're a man! Unless of course you hate men too...and then we might make an exception.

 

I hate everybody.

 

true say




men can be so stupid at times

 

Because the Y chromosome is in jeopardy, I was think about writing a scifi called The Last Man on Earth. The last dude would be locked in an exhibit at the zoo like a monkey as a curiosity.

 

As a gifted seer to me your future can only follow one of four paths:

1) an Old Spinster

2) Bi-sexuality

3) an Old Maid

4) The life of a hermit


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I see it differently. I see her not waiting for the typical asshole to approach her; instead she goes up to the cute but painfully shy guy in the corner and they live happily ever after.

 

The guy in the corner is generally there because has something to hide


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