i wish i had a guy's body

ever since i was a little girl, i've been envious of guys. i hate my body because its so feminine. i have wide hips and a pretty big butt, even though my breasts are fairly small, only a B cup. i'm about 5'10" and 130 lbs, and have always been told i have a womanly figure. i guess the guys like it, but i don't. when i was younger i would wear extremely tight sports bras to hide my growing breasts, but to no avail. now i have a sort of obsession with being thin, but not to the point of being anorexic. i fantasize, but i can never get myself skinny enough to be happy. my current goal is to lose 10 lbs, but even then i know i wont have the body i want. i want a tiny butt and A cup breasts at best, theres nothing i can do about my hips though. the truly strange thing is that my personality is feminine, i'm not mentally like a guy. i just have male body envy, and i have my whole life. except for testicles, i would never ever want those. a penis maybe, but nothing else. now its not like this thought controls my life, its just always there in my mind, popping up when i look in the mirror disguised as my overwhelming desire to be thin. like, cokehead thin, so skinny it looks like a light breeze would blow me over. am i really weird or has anyone else ever felt like this?

 

i wouldn't mind having a guy's body either, instead i'm stuck with this boyish stick figure...



if you really want to be cokehead thin, the solution is simple: do lots of coke

 

From a male perspective we're glad you look exactly as you do

But it is fun to run around during the summer without a shirt on, especially when it's hot and humid outside. otherwise when it's oppressively humid I can go through 3 shirts a day


Hotwater

 

You really want a mans body? Do you want to be overed in itchy chest hair? Do you want to shave your face every morning? Do you want to sweat 10x more then you already do? Lets not forget about random boners in public places. Pros and Con's with everything.

 

im so jealous of guys they can lose weight no problem!! my boyfriend is sooooo tiny and im always jealous.

 

Um... not really.

 

most of the time. it way easier for guys to lose weight and gain muscle

 

It's still pretty rare for guys to lose weight no problem.
It's been something I've struggled with for a decade, and I doubt it will ever get anywhere.

 

eat 1500 calories a day and exercise for 20 minutes. i did that and lost 20 =]

maybe it'll work for you

 

Nope. Women just don't work out hard enough. I see it at my gym all the time. Yoga and walking will not make you loose weight. YOu need to burn fat by gaining muscle and you have to to an ass load of REAL cardio. Not light jogs and walks.

 

I eat about 1600, and run three miles a day.
I haven't lost a pound, and I've been doing this for two months.

 

Another example of the insanity of females. I've seen both of your pictures.

*shakes head*

 

Yeah, they definitely look just fine to me.

 

you're all insane.

 

a tiny butt? Why would you want that? You should be happy with what you have.... you look just fine to me

 

Don't assume that is how all women work out. I would never do YOGA as a WORKOUT. Anyways........ Do your research also. It IS easier for guys to lose weight then women because of how men's and women's bodies are different proportionally and how they burn fat....

 

Ummm...what do you eat? (yes, i saw how many calories but what do they consist of?)

I lost 20 pounds in a month by a HEALTHY diet and daily excercise.

Maybe you have a medical problem also- like with your thyroid.....

(ps- cardio is not the best way to lose weight)

 

green fairie-
i just looked at your picture.
your beautiful.
i know you want to look like a boy. but the truth is, you probably never will. you are sexy and the perfect weight.
your obsession with being thinner is classic anorexia... either you need to go see your doctor or try and combat it yourself.
please. i dont know you and i am worried.
i lost my best friend to anorexia and i dont want to see any more girls put themselves through that.

 

I would gladly trade you memi just to look at my self every morning

 

Umm actually burning calories makes you lose weight. Gaining muscle has nothing to do with it, you gain muscle to be toned but not to lose weight. I see people like you all the time too thinking they need to eat a buncha protein and work out everyday.. its pretty rediculous if you ask me.
I maintain my weight fine, I just eat healthy and dance and walk =)