you make good money and get to dance all night. why not? of course i couldnt cuz all the people i would piss off (parents, boyfriend, brothers) but its always been a little dream of mine.
I know a guy who bounces at strip clubs and dates a lot of them. He told me he's never met a stripper that wasn't messed up in the head one way or another. I'm not saying all strippers are messed up, I think it's a great job for a lot of girls who really do enjoy stripping and the attention and they make great money. But I do think it hardens you and will leave lasting affects. I've heard more bad stories then good. I'd wait a few years and maybe by then you'll have changed your mind or be in a different place in your life.
just saw your pics, you're very pretty ,have a very fresh look, you'd certainly do very well in the industry but i think you can find something else you're better suited for.
i stripped outside scotland yard police headquarters in london - didn't get paid though - just arrested I think if your'e prepared to deal with all the shit your likely to get from guys you could do it - but at 17 your more likely to be taken advantage of - sure you'll make alot of money - but you'll also be making a lot of money for someone else and it's almost more than likely to be some high powered dude
Well i would never do it. I sopose it would be pretty degrading now that i think about it..i think ill stick to my more wholesome ambition of becoming a hair stylist.
i think you should try it out. if u want. i mean, shit, its one of yer little dreams, isnt it? ill admitt, its one of my mine too. i dont think its degrading. it just depends what way you look at it. some peopel can be really narrowminded. its celebrating feminity. i mean, you're a woman- embrace it! you get to etertain. create fantasties. dress up. i mean, what kind of job normally lets you get to be fabolous, adorned in glitter,sexy outfits, makeup? you can dance(naked too of course, and who the hell DOESNT like dancing naked?) you can drink, have fun, and probably gain alot of self confifdence..and not to mention - the CASH! with all of it, you'd probably only have to work a few times a week, then the rest of the week -you're FREE to do anything you want. strippers arent different than any other girl. its just a job. there are too many sterotypes. its not like you sterotype , say, all the girls who work at starbucks or something. as long as you dont get stuck in traps..such as wasting all of your money(since stripping cant be done when your old...its an industry for the young...you should save up!) drugs, alachol, and the like. goodluck. give it a try, what do u ahve to loose? youre not getting any younger. if you dont like it, you can always quit
If you become a stripper your becoming an object, not a human. That is true of jobs in general. Humans are alienated and made into commodities under capitalism. You're not humans, your fabric or oil or plastic. If you can help it and i think you can, don't become a stripper. There is nothing good or glorious about being an object and especially about being a stripper. Many people will find it morally repulsive. When you have to get a job in the future, and you will, you would be better off having done something else, unless you're planning to spend your entire life in entertainment, but then you'll still end up on the bottom. I don't think being a stripper is particularly worse than any other job, but you're really objectifying yourself and you have your future to think about. Nobody wants to see and old stripper, but you're going to get old and when your old you will need money. You'll make more money in the long run if you don't undercut yourself at a young age by being a stripper. Go to college and study something real, like science or history or english or math, or anything except business. Stripping is alright if your in college or going to college, but if not then it just seems like a bad idea. I feel bad for women who have to resort to stripping, prostitution, and objectifying themselves in general for a living. We should live in a society where women don't have to do that, but we don't.
i have a kind of different attitude towards strippers... i don't see them as objectifying themselves. maybe a straight up porn star who changes the way she looks just so she can meet a criteria is, but if you are proud of your beauty (we all should be) and like to dance/strip, i don't think you should be ashamed. i, personally, "wouldn't mind being a stripper" either. just expect to either become a lesbian or go through a period of hating men with a passion . personally, i want to be a suicide girl when i turn 18. just because I want to. i think it would be fun, i'm not ashamed of myself (in the sense that i would be afraid to show my body, or in the sense that most people find acceptance of yourself disgraceful). and you only live once (what a cliche). but i would have another job too. and suicide girls is a little more "tasteful" by other's opinions than stripping in a club or a bar or something. they accept all kinds of girls, with all kinds of bodies, and are more about art than showing off a stereotypical "hot" girl in the interest of getting money from horny, drunk, old men.
ohmygod, plus, you're gorgeous. i'd watch you strip. (i hope you don't find that offensive... if you do i'm sorry)
i think most girls have fantasized at one time or another about stripping or being a centerfold, you know, playboy and all that jazz. Hey I saw a documentary on the Suicide Girls and they were cool! Very hot.