If you could write a letter to someone you've lost..

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  1. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    Someone you love that has died. And you knew somehow, they would receive it. Or you could have the opportunity to go back to the last time you saw them and tell them everything what would you say? Would you tell them how your life has been without them? Would you tell them what you feel you should have said but never did?
     
  2. TipsyGypsy

    TipsyGypsy Light of a Fading Star

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    I believe they already know how my life is going, so don't really think I would find it necessary to write them a letter. But, if I could see them, I would just talk about anything and ask what is like after you die.
     
  3. wild-flowers

    wild-flowers forever arbitrary

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    This is what i'd write:

    I remember one of the last times I saw you. You were in the hospital; your cancer was spreading through your body. To make matters worse you had suffered through a stroke so you couldn’t speak to me. However you were coherent, you smiled at my terrible jokes. You strained a laugh when I danced by your hospital bed. I tried to be strong for you; I tried my best not to cry. I remember digging my nail into the side of my thumb trying to focus on the pain instead of what was happening, so I wouldn’t think about how I was going to lose you. I remember when you were healthy and told me as long as you make it to see me walking down the aisle you’ll be happy. You never made it. This thought kills me. I know I never told you this, but you have had an incredible impact on my life. You made me feel loved; you offered the kind of unconditional love that rarely makes an appearance in anyone’s life. I haven’t been the same since you’ve died. When you passed, you took my youth with you. I was in shock at first, over the years the effects of losing you unraveled like a home-made sweater. I wish I could tell you how much I love you; I wish you could read this and know without a doubt that I will always love you. How I miss the simple things like watching bad television together. Celebrating the holidays and listening to you sing, how all the old songs sound better with your voice. You always knew how to cheer me up, I always felt warm and happy just sitting in a room with you, even if we weren’t saying anything. I love you.
     
  4. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    There is one person I would write a letter to, or at least a sentence- it would read:

    'you stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid, stupid bastard. But thank you, nonetheless- I owe you my life'.
     
  5. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    "I love you, and I hope I can be better than you were"
     
  6. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    We are all ok Dad, you taught us well. You would of loved the kids and I miss you.
     
  7. Spicey Cat

    Spicey Cat DMT Witch (says husband)

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    i miss you terribly and hope you are not too disappointed. You have taught me that split-second choices/mistakes can cost multiple lives. i wish this wasn't the case.

    (i feel very glad that my last actual words to this person were, "i love you.")

    Peace & Love,
    Spicey Cat
    Meow
     
  8. Heavenly Bohemian

    Heavenly Bohemian Member

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    I think everyone has someone they would love to write a letter to a lost loved one!
    how about a dead person you never met? those would be some interesting letters!
     
  9. shaggie

    shaggie Senior Member

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    Sorry you died. What's it like in Heaven?

    (voice back): Who's in Heaven?

    .
     
  10. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    my note would say (to grandfather who died before grandma)


    sorry grandpa...we wish you could have had a few more years peace but there was really nothing the doctors could do to save grandma











    wow that was mean wasnt it :D

    but I know it would have gave him a laugh :cool:
     
  11. TopNotchStoner

    TopNotchStoner Georgia Homegrown

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    I'd rather make an audio recording. I hate writing letters.
     
  12. gabourey_Kardashian

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    I;d say I'm sorry they're in hell, but whose fault is that
     
  13. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Love It.!..........:D.



    Cheers Glen.
     
  14. rak

    rak Senior Member

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    To Jesus Christ,

    Include the lottery numbers to the address below.

    Thanks

    R
     

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