If you got her pregnant...

You had a one night stand with a girl at a party. You dont really have feelings for her besides physical attraction. Some time later she calls you find out you got her pregnant. What do you do???

 

i'd say dont stay with her and take responsiblity for the baby

 

id be fucking out. fuck that.

either that or have a meeting with her at the top of a very long staircase

 

If she was going to keep the baby, then I'd probably stick with her. (As long as she wasn't a total bitch)

After all, I stuck my dick in her, I should take some responsibility right?

 

i no speak english

 

Lol. You're horrible...

 

Me, erm . ..No...erm, Elmish-Enlisgh-english

 

i say man up take the responsibility but dont stay with her if you dont really like her

 

How about an option of... offer to pay for her abortion. Who needs an unexpected child? Just because you both were irresponsible for a night, does not mean you have to pay for it, the rest of your life...

 

I know, it is really un-fair on men. We have no choice ..We should be able to pay for the abortion, if she wants it on her own. Then she is on her OWN

 

I'd try to have her get an abortion. If that failed then I guess I'd have a kid to take care of.

 

Well, seeing as I'll never be on that side of the situation, I guess I shouldn't have voted, but I did. I chose don't stay with her but take responsibility of the baby. If you can make it work with the girl, great, but at least make sure the baby is taken care of.

ETA: If you chose the one where you speak Spanish, that's really horrible. LOL.

 

I'd try to have her get an abortion. If that failed then I guess she'd have a kid to take care of.

 

There should be "consent to have baby" forms for the guy to sign if he's legally responsible for child support, for like if birth control fails or she lies about being on the pill.

I'd probably stick with her just because it's the right thing to do, as long as she's not like horrible or nutfucking crazy

 

I voted even though I am a female. Cuz that is what I would do if I was a dude. Being the product of just such a stupid event I think I have a say. My parents were both married but not to each other. I was raised as my mom's hubby's kid. They divorced over the deal and then my mom tried to pawn me off on my real dad. He brought some gifts over and that was that. She ended up back with her husband. I saw my real dad again once at a rodeo he happened to be riding in. He was never around and took no responsibility except for owning up to the facts that he was the sperm donor. The man who raised me was a nice man in public and most of the time in private. Some times his personal demons got control and I was not his kid and all that jazz.

So, if the kid turns out to yours dudes. And it is proven to be in court. Please take responsibility for the kid. And not just financially. Your kid just may need you. Could you live with yourself if years down the road you find out that your child needed you to protect them and or needed clothes, food, etc and you chose not to be involved. If the courts or the kids mom prevents it thats one thing. But you gotta try. My husband was never there for my kids when we were together and after the divorce. They refer to him as Mr Sperm Donor. They even gave him a second chance when he asked for it after they were grown. And he blew that. Its his f....ing loss. They are great young adults and one day he is gonna regret it.

Peace, Cricket

 

IF SHE'S SO...


A) Irresponsible...

B) Stupid...

C) Dead Ignorant...


AS TO...


A) Not Be On The Pill...

B) Not .INSIST..He Wear A Condom...

C) And If None Of The Above Protection Is Available Still Can't Say "NO NOT TONIGHT"....

THEN MY ADVICE WOULD BE.....


******************** DITCH THE BITCH ****************




Yours..........With The Firm Belief.....(however old fashioned)... That We All Should Be Responsible For Our Own Actions....

Glen.

 

Paternity test.

 

Depending on her age and the situation, I would strongly suggest placing the baby for adoption. A child is not killed through abortion and a loving couple who is not able to have children on their own can have a child. I always lean toward Adoption and see abortion only as a last resort to save her life.

 

I don't know. I would support the baby the best I could, but I wouldn't want to raise the kid.

 

well if she wanted me to marry/stay with her, that would be cool with me. i find the scenario highly unlikely though, as i've never had sex with anyone i didn't get to know really really well first. also, i take seriously the idea of marrage being a perminent arraingement, though i CAN accept the idea of more then one partner of BOTH genders, if that were mutually aggreable. which in real life it would have to be, as i already have one wife, and one other person is more then enough to share a household with.

so the simple truth would be that she would probably be very very mistaken. but if, if, i were other then i am, and weren't as i am, already spoken for, if she was honestly willing to take merrage to me seriously, then what the hey, i'd go for it. she'd have to understand though, that she wouldn't, dascent, rob me of what i live for, which is creating and exploring, not companionship, accumulation nor excitement.

she could still party all she wanted if that was her nature and inclination, as long as she didn't bring anything home with her we didn't both aggree on beforehand.

i just don't see myself having sex with anyone i wouldn't be willing to live with. never have. nor has anyone who didn't, at the time, think they could stand living with me, ever had sex with me either.

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