im a girl player

so i have this... problem(?), for lack of better word, where i feel like i need to maintain every guys interest in me. if a guy shows me that he likes me, i do everything i can to show them i care back (even if falsly) so that they do not stop liking me. i know, poor girl has guys hanging off of her... but i actually am plagued by it. see, the second a guy realizes he's going nowhere with me and that im just stalling his inevitable absense, i feel such a tremendous loss and feel so much guilt in leading them on (in which i should.)

now, understand, i dont do anything with these guys, not even kiss. its just an ongoing series of dates that they are waiting to progress into something else, like a commited relationship, but i wont let it. i either dont like them or dont like them in that way. but for some reason, i still feel like i need to hold on for as long as i can.

WHY?!

 

you are bored with the guys you are dating and need more excitement and mystery maybe? maybe the guys you are currently seeing are to predictible but offer you what you want..so you keep them around for your own gratification and advancement. maybe so you aren't lonely too - to insure you always have someone waiting. But you need to think about how these guys may feel. if you have ever been crushed by a boy, thats how they feel. if not, who knows, maybe karma will bite you in the ass.

anywho, I see you are 17. most guys around that age have no clue how to act around ladies (95% of them). maybe try for some older dudes?

 

Ahh so in a nut shell you are a cock tease and a person with such low self esteem you will do anything for attention and energy.
So you are also an energy vampire and keep seeking new victims.
Good luck with all that and most guys and chicks who do this end up alone and miserable.... but then it sounds like your there already.

 

sounds like yet another manifestation of low self esteem. You really should find a good therapist.

 

That's really mean.

If you have any self respect you will STOP dating anyone...because you are hurting everyone you come in contact with. It's not fair to them...no wonder most guys are players...because they run into girls like this.

 

It's not that difficult/ rare to
see older examples of this bs trolling these boards.


It's nobody's choice but your own...

 

WTF are you talking about?

 

He's talking about how, despite your age, you ream people out and instead of doing anything constructive like offering advice, you just insult and provoke.

A behaviour that is common to trolls.

Now come on, there's no reason to be a jerk, no matter how you feel about the OP's problem.



To the OP: You do realize that you're causing a lot of heartbreak for these guys, right? If you have any shred of decency, you'll stop dating all of them, except maybe the one you like the most, and go from there.

Are you perhaps afraid of intimacy? If you're just leading these guys on, not even kissing them or anything of that sort, maybe you're just scared to be intimate so you're filling your time by dating many people? If you have no intention to progress in a relationship, you shouldn't keep it going.

 

some of your guys' thoughts are true....

i do struggle with insecurities (an eating disorder to say the least), and i do all i can not to have people leave me.

the ironic thing is that in my struggle to make people like me, i, in turn, make them hate me because they feel used and led on.

 

What we FEAR we create!

 

Thanks Bro!
So have you.

 

Sorry if the reality of my post upset you little boy with sword.

 

So she's a player, like that's new.... Don't break nice guys hearts. It turns them into man-whores like me! Trust me sugarpants, you dont want that.

 

To wizarddrew77:
Sorry to disappoint a few but I was talking about the same thing you were... appears I wasn't very clear.

For clarity's sake:
I was agreeing w/your quoted post.


To the balance of the idiots:
Obviously a few of yall require more education/ practice
in the field of Clairvoyance
as well as
keeping One's mouth shut when ya haven't a freakin clue.

Nothing new there, eh?

 

I like Hikaru, but this shit IS funny.

 

Well, even though you think I'm worthless and you have bigoted tendencies, I'd still eat your pussy and fuck your brains out.

And you'd enjoy it.

 

Libertine you just made my coffee come out my nose from laughing so hard.

 

Oh Ok then let's all get naked and fuck and be firiends now.
BTW That pic over the texas stadium is the shit man.
Peace

 

Lol, upset me? I was trying to help an old fella like yourself understand this younger guy, but it appears that any attempt of mine to help you will fail miserably at the source.

"little boy with sword" -- lol what could you possibly hope to accomplish by name calling? You don't think a little rough-housing with words is going to make me cry, senile old man Indian wannabe, do you?

Rofl ... whoever said it wasn't?

 

I like your posts Hikaru but boy and his sword is some funny shit