I'm a vegetarian hippie, my fiance is not

I love my fiance more than anything but our views conflict so much. He eats meat and I wont let him get near me until he brushes his teeth and washes his hands. We've been together off and on for over 3 years, I have his name on my body and we plan on getting married next year. I know I want to do this but I dont know how to work out this problem or just leave it alone. Help?

 

if by him eating meat is a problem to you, maybe you should just stick to dating vegetarians. its his way of doing things just like not eating meat is your way of doing things. i wouldn't think that he is having a major problem with you eating non-meat items so what's your problem? i mean if his name is tatted on your body you must know that he's the one. you gotta just get over the fact that he enjoys food that tastes good.

 

I know I love him and that he's the one. However I'm completely repulsed by him ingesting animals. I just feel like he would be missing out since I would never cook anything he would enjoy eating.

 

he's not an omnivore?

 

if he's the one and you love him get past the whole animal thing. it is probably gross for you to see him eat animals and i can see where your coming from even though i eat meat, but i don't see why you should banned him from being in a relationship with you. a lot of people eat animals, it's a way of nutrition for some. just have an open mind and concentrate on the love rather than what he digests.

 

good point. I will just try and see past this. thank you for the advice.

 

i feel like i should be working for dear abby jk
i'm glad i could help out.

 

well all of that was pointless i just got dumped today. fucking bastards i'm going gay

 

oh man. sorry to hear that. well fuck that eat meating piece of shit anyway.

 

aww you're nice... it's okay i'm talking to one of his best friends right now

 

Too bad you didn't go through with the wedding...that marriage would've lasted decades!

 

Haha wonderful sarcasm. i'm glad to be rid of his ass. he was a dick! and now i'm fucking his friend... irony...

 

Hmm...doesn't sound very ethical to me. But hey, I'm a meat-eater, what do I know about ethics?

 

I give a shit about ethics... I like his friend and i'm dating him now so my happiness is the only thing that matters

 

well he texted me today saying that he was just testing me is why he dumped me. and that he got me a 500 dollar engagement ring. i told him that i dont believe his bullshit stories anymore and that the only reason he came back to me is because she didnt want anything to do with him. i'm sure he got the ring but it means shit to me. i told him to leave me alone and to leave my bf alone too because i'm happy and he kept saying that my new bf is a player and that he's gonna cheat on me. he's just jealous and wants me bk and he will never get me bk

 

He was testing you...is he serious? You inked his name on you and he thought you should be tested? Good for you to move on like you did.

 

He just said that he was testing me so that he could make me believe that he wasnt trying to get back with that other girl but the funny thing is that one of his friends(and not the one im dating) confirmed for me that he was trying to hook up with her but that she didnt wanna be with him again. It shocks me that he truely believes that i'm that idiotic. He is extremely bipolar and i honestly think that he even believes the lies he is spewing.

 

Even as a line to get you back it is seriously insulting. I've cared about 1 or 2 people that were bipolar. They were just too hard to hold on to and very toxic. Sounds like he is hoping you will simply ignore your common sense. Poor guy is guessing wrong across the board lately.

 

I don't know how to say this without sounding offensive. It sounds to me like both of you need to do some serious growing up.