I'm demisexual and have never experienced orgasm, is it related?

I'm 31 and have never been able to orgasm, not with a partner or by myself. I honestly feel like it has something to do with the fact that I am demisexual. I've only been with one partner and we have been together since I was 17. I struggle to masterbate because I don't get turned on by anything really so just feels weird. I'm beginning to think maybe I'm just broken. I'm curious if anyone else here identifies as demi and if so, have you had a similar experience or is something likely wrong with me?

 

Demisexual, not familiar with that
Are you man or woman physically?

 

Demisexual is where someone can only be attracted to someone after forming some kind of emotional bond with them.

And to answer your question I'm a woman.

 

Offhand, I'd say that being demisexual and unable to orgasm are not related to each other. It's either something in your head that won't allow you to orgasm or there's something physically wrong and should be checked out with a doctor.

 

To echo @KDaddy23 I agree orgasm and sexual orientation would not be associated with each other. But I will say, some women take a lot of time and effort to bring to orgasm.
I was with some, and I know they were aroused, wanted sex with me. One of them knew that much about herself which was good.
Not knowing your personal details, so saying things in general.
Being able to relax and own your sexuality, allowing yourself to enjoy with a healthy amount of selfishness, communication and trying things are needed

 

Don’t apologize for how you are or think your broken, your just you.
Bonds for Demi people can be somewhat quick once discovered or take years, depending on the person.
Just because your with someone since you were 17 does not ness mean your sexually attracted to them, so all your buttons are not getting pushed.
It’s a complex situation but I wish you luck and hope you get what you need.