Im lost

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Greenluv90, Feb 17, 2006.

  1. Greenluv90

    Greenluv90 Member

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    Im back yea its been awhile but its been rough for me i dont know where to turn im to the point on questioning my goal or purpose in life because of one dude. i hate him soo much but i luv him dearly i dont know why he confused me he said he would and will always be with me but then he got envolved w. another gurl now he wants me back i told him i didnt know bc i think i lost my feelings for him i dont know whut to do.
    plz comment
    later
    Jaxi O-o
     
  2. Capn_Danger

    Capn_Danger Member

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    Ditch him, you can do better. Especially if you don't have feelings for him anymore. The way you described it, it doesn't sound like it was a very healthy relationship.

    My advice is to take some time off from serious dating and just get to know yourself and find some personal direction in your life. You sound like you've really lost your center over this guy, so consider taking some time to get that back before jumping in a relationship again.
     
  3. yazzer

    yazzer Member

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    oh god, i totally know how u feel and i hate feeling this way.
    men, unfortunately, can really affect our self esteem if we let them. i have a hard time not being affected since i wear my heart on my sleeve and love openly. how long has it been since u broke up? i just got dumped a day after valentines and the shitty thing is i'd already tried to break up with him before!!!!!


     
  4. dietcoketree

    dietcoketree Member

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    yea move on. enough said.

    if moving on for you means goign back to this guy and tieing up some loose ends then so be it, but i have a feeling thats not moving on AT ALL.
     
  5. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    It's easy. If you aren't 100% happy. Dump him.

    You'll thank me later.
     
  6. Greenluv90

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    ok then i will thanx for the tips they all been helpful...
    later
    Jaxi O-o
     
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