I am soooo sick of loving people and getting hurt. Im sick of cool girls with serious mental problems. Im sick of assholes turning awesome chicks into broken goods for me to meet later only to realize that if I had gotten to them earlier it would work. Im seriously just sick of fucking everything having to do with love. Im sick of loving whole heartedly and it NEVER paying off in the end. *sigh* /rant off
jeez dude. you're a 25 year old guy. man up. don't you have a kid? pour your love onto him, enjoy your life, and you'll meet a girl worth meeting eventually. don't look so hard for it.
maybe if you weren't so negative even your username is negative and your expectations are negative until you start seeing and feeling joy and get out of that crappy mindset you will always meet woman that are"mental" byw, some mental woman are gorgeous '
I agree with the above poster. You should adopt a move positive outlook on love. The more positive energy you give out, the more you will receive. Love... it does exist, I'm sure of it. You just need to keep looking... But I do see where you coming from, been there a few times myself... the most attractive women are always the most insane as well... but anyways, just keep truckin' man, you'll find someone.
thanks for the support and thanks for the kick in the ass i needed.... thats all i have to say right now
yeah, well, you know what! i'm sick of being a cool chick with mental problems, i'm sick of guys breaking my heart, turning me into a heartless non-trusting bitch. im sick of love aswell... fuck love. i've decided to stay single for the rest of my lonesome life. lol. dont need anybody... except i have bf right now, who i've told many times to leave me... lol. but he keeps coming back..
Awwwwww, how sweet. I have one like that. I've woke him up in the middle of the night a couple times (when he had to work at 6am) with panic attacks saying I think I need to go to the hospital 'cos I can't breathe and my heart is pounding and he patiently talks me down and helps me get back to sleep. I always feel like such a shit afterwards, heh.
lol i know ... i feel like shit too afterwards... cause he's so nice, and cooks me dinner and shit, but i keep telling him to get lost. lol. so i too feel bad. but sometimes you gotta listen to your heart. if you feel deep down, that he isn't the one for you, then you gotta let go of him, no matter how nice he is... am i right? or am i right?... lol
I agree that nice isn't a reason to stay... It just makes it harder to leave But in the end, yes, you should follow your heart. It's dumb just to stay for the other person. I would rather someone be honest with me than put on a show...
I totaly agree!!! My moms friend stayed with a guy out of niceness and actually maried him!! on top of that he turned out to be a child molester. love is a screwed up thing. I've given it up. 50 percent of mariges end in divorce! What kind of precident is that.
to the OP, i know how ya feel! i was in a relationship for 3 years, and it turned out to be a bad relationship so i broke it off.. after that i've been on a search to find love (again). but every guy that i ever get to know and think is cool ends up screwing me over. the guy i'm talking to now is really awesome and we get along like we've been best friends for all of our lives.. we're perfect and i'm totally happy, but he doesn't want a relationship. ugh
