I'm sixteen & I'm only interested in guys AT LEAST four years older than me.

The last guy I hooked up with is twenty-two. The last guy I actually had sex with is twenty-three. Right now, I'm madly in lust with one of the CDT's at my work. He's twenty-five.

I have absolutely no interest whatsoever in anyone my age. This is going to get me in trouble sooner or later.

 

I dont see how its going to get you into trouble as much as perhaps the "older guy"


Age is a number, if you find more comfort in an older guy then so be it but at 16 the "older guy" needs to keep the relationship hands off until a future date so keep himself out of trouble.

 

so? age is only a number. true age and wisdom and maturity are in the soul.

 

I agree.
When I was 16
I wanted an older woman.
I thought all the girls around me were idiots.

The teenage years were......so strange.
I'm so glad to be older now.
84, to be exact.

 

No doubt when you are older you'll find 'younger guys' appealing. Anyway 16 and 25 is hardly a huge age gap. Big deal!

 

I like older guys too. I'm 20, my bf is 26. Just be careful...16 is young enough that you're going to attract the creeps, so make sure guys like you for YOU, right?

 

Okay well it looks by your criteria that I'm perfect. LOL.

Seriously though 25 year olds that screw 16 year olds make me laugh, I mean that's just pathetic.

 

It's no different than a 41 yr old seeing a 49 yr old. It's nothing.

 

....IDIOT!!!

I hate it when people bring up " oh it's just 5 or so years "

Puberty and School has a lot to do with it.

A 16 year old isn't even a High School Graduate while a 25 year old could already have a Masters, but more likely a Bachelors degree, regardless that 25 year old should have a job and an established career.

Unless of course you're talking about one of those deadbeat 25 year olds........wait a minute.....THERE'S MILLIONS OF EM!!!!

I think you see my point though I think until a girl hits 20 it's fair game.

When a girl hits 18 I think the limit should be around 30.

But 16? It's under the line sorry I personally think the limit should be 20.

 

Wow i pressed your buttons eh.

So tell me, What does puberty, school, highscool graduation or masters degrees, jobs and careers have to do with a close relationship such as a romantic one? The girls sixteen! Past puberty and capable of being a mother.

 

Maximus is right and you, liquidlight, are a creepy perv.

 

All i'm doing is asking maximus ... and now yourself 'MollyBoston' to explain yourselves, because so far both of you have not explained why you think like this?

I notice you are both just 20 years old. When you get to my age you'll probably notice that 9 years is not a big age gap. It is not someones age that is the problem here but maturity. At 39 i would not date anyone probably younger than 25, and ideally mutch closer to my own age because i consider ones late twenties to be a time when people are just starting to see through adult eyes. There are exceptions.
The age of consent in the UK is 16 ... but just because the law sais it's ok doesn't make it right.
maximus called me an Idiot and now you, Molly have called me a creepy perve. However i don't feel the need to get uptight about it and slander people ... and that shows the difference in our maturity.

 

when you would be our age you'd probably notice there is a big difference between sixteen year olds and twenty year olds, because when you're young your socialization process goes much faster than when you are older so there are big differences by age. of course this is notr gonna stop the sixteen year old and the twenty five year old that like each other

 

Well thanks for explaining a little.

Quote: "when you would be our age."

The age of one's body has little to do with the age of their thinking. The number of so called adults still running about behaving like teenagers proves this ... but this is usually because those people don't learn from their experiences, indeed it seems that some people just don't want to 'grow up' and 'take responsibility', but there are other factors like fear and trauma where people reach a point of growth (i'm talking emotional/mental maturity here) that they cannot progress past and they suffer a kind of 'arrested development' and get stuck at a certain emotional/mental age (as we see it). Also people develop in some areas of their lives but not in others. This is why you can't tell a persons maturity simply by their age.
A 25 year old seeing a 16 year old is just fine providing that they are both mature 'enough' to live that relationship in a responsible manner.

Quote: "when you're young your socialization process goes much faster than when you are older."

... that all depends on how social one is. Many 30, 40, 50 ect year olds are also very social you know.

 

I guesse you ignored me completely because I have very good reasons why 16 year olds shouldn't date 25 year olds etc.

Unless the 25 year old is a complete loser ( and most of the time that is the case when you have a 25 year old dating a 16 year old ) that 25 year old is already in the career world, whereas the 16 year old doesn't even have a High School Diploma which is essentially the basic requirement for a decent job.

And I know, I know I'm more intelligent than many 30 year olds, I can speak 4 languages first off and I'm finishing 2nd year at University.

Yet, the biggest age gap I've had with a girl is 2 and a half years ( I was 20 and she was 17 but that was like a 3 months before she turned 18 ) and I've had relationships with older women, but I personally don't like dating women who are smarter than me.

 

Quote:
"All i'm doing is asking maximus ... and now yourself 'MollyBoston' to explain yourselves, because so far both of you have not explained why you think like this?."

I don't call that 'ignoring you'.

It seems you define yourself through your percieved intelligence and worldly success yet none of this has to do with love.

 

25 Year olds who date and screw 16 year old babes aren't doing it for love, they're doing it because they're losers who can't get chicks closer to their age and they know High School girls are easy game.

Let's be honest here we all know the game.

I have my own car ( used but good condition Mustang ), I'm 20, if I really wanted I could pick up the smoking hottie from Grade 12 and have her suck me off every fucking day.

But what would I get out of it?? Sure it'd be fun at first but that's just pathetic.

I don't feel the need to exploit girls which is exactly what older guys who go for High School girls do.

 

Well, there's people and there's people. We ain't all the same. I'm 39 and still get younger women, even teenagers occasionally, checking me out and sometimes chatting me up. Why? Because i'm a good looking chap who looks ten years younger than he is. But do i oblige them? Of course not, ... i know the difference between fantasy and reality, what works and what doesn't. I do find it flattering though.

 

15 will get you 20 you know..

Seriously thats fucked up. Illegal!

Like Judge Judy says, you go messing around with Jail-Bait you accept the consequences.

What Im trying to say is, dont get these guys in serious trouble.

 

The age of consent in Canada is 16, what's more is there is a close range exception, but 16 is legal all the way.

And no, I'm better built than most 16 and 17 year old guys, so that helps out a lot, plus I'm 21, something about guys in there 20s makes it easier for us, always been that way.

Obviously you shouldn't take my words literally because I wouldn't be driving my high schools, that's creepy, however I still keep in touch with some Grade 12/13 guys that know where the high school parties are at etc.

In Canada you need two get 2 licenses to drive a car if you didn't know, most 16 year olds don't have a license to begin with, and most 17 year olds don't have their own cars, or they have shitty broken down ones.

Bottom line, High School girls like older men, who actually fit the bill, obviously some 20 year olds look 18, that's just sad.

I prefer University girls myself.


P.S. My car is black, not red