I'm the only person who's been able to give me an orgasm?

Technically, I'm a virgin, but I have had in the past, and continue to have with my current boyfriend, a fairly active sex life regardless of that. Basically, we do everything BUT actual intercourse. And unfortunately, I have the same problem with my current boyfriend that I've always had in the past which is.... no orgasm, no cum. nothing. I mean, I get aroused, sure, but never... the big "O".

Now... when I'm masturbating on my own on the other hand... that is another story. The only, I repeat, only time I have ever been able to climax has been when using, get ready for it, a battery operated toothbrush. seriously, that thing has worked better than any vibrator. And that toothbrush has been my only way of orgasm, for as long as I can remember.

Now, I'm not waiting 'til i'm married to have sex, in fact in could happen in the near future but.... for the time being.... I would love some tips on how I could better achieve an orgasm.... from my boyfriend instead of just myself? I mean, I adore giving head and swallowing his cum, I just would like the same.

So, positions for oral, or tips ingeneral would be greatly appreciated!

 

The best thing you can do is show him how you masturbate and what it takes to get you to orgasm. Some guys are clueless and thing that he has to thrust away to get you there when actually you need lots of clitoral stimulation.

 

A genuine orgasm I think is not so easy to achieve, in my life so far only ever been on the end of 4 maybe - and maybe only ever one very intense one we went off like a firecracker!!

So don't be too overly hard on yourself if you don't achieve it.

Maybe if you read what happened to me, give you some idea of what I did or do to try to achieve it.

Hope it helps.

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=265511&f=280

 

If you have been using a toothbrush, 100% the best advice I can give you on oral

is oral hygiene

 

Give him lessons how 2 brush correctly. Then go from there. Hope it works 4 ya xxx

 

Oh no! That's awful but also kind of funny.

I have that problem too. I mean, I don't masturbate with a toothbrush, but my boyfriend can't get me off and he's tried. What he does feels WAY better than what I can do by myself, but I just can't get off. At first I thought it was just because I was nervous about making the "o face" in front of him, but as of right now I've come in front of him a jillion times (vibrator-induced usually), we fuck pretty often, and we've been together for over a year. There's nobody I trust more, and yet... :/ And it makes him feel really bad, but I don't want to fake it because that would be dishonest and would make me feel bad. So I'm kinda stuck. lol