So I'm a sixteen (nearly seventeen) year old girl & lately I've been crazy about one of the girls I work with. She's nineteen & has a boyfriend of six years or so. I don't consider myself bisexual, more bi-curious, but I don't know what it is about her. She has a great personality & we talk a lot at work but we've never hung out outside of work. && She's gorgeous. I wanna say I feel like there's some sort of sexual tension between us, but I could be completely misinterpreting everything. Still, we joke around a lot & it's always a little sexual. Like, she'll slap my ass or kiss me on the cheek, just for fun. You know how you mess around that way with your friends. But today, I was complaining that my lower back hurt & she came up behind me & rubbed it for a good couple of minutes, all the way up to my neck & shoulders & I would be lying if I said it didn't totally turn me on. I've been thinking about her a ton lately & I don't know if she feels the way I do or what. As far as I know, she's straight, but I could be wrong. She dresses kinda punky/emo-ish & I know it's stereotypical, but a lot of those girls ARE bisexual/lesbian. I wanna bring this up with her, but I don't know how.
ask her if she wants to do something after work! go grab coffee or talk a walk with her. then try to read her....i'd say she sounds pretty open with all that she does at work. ask her about her bf though and find out about her situation. then, you just gotta come out and say it. tell her you're attracted to girls and see how she reacts (you know...chat about how there's no good guys around, ect..) if it's positive, then let her know you like her and see where it goes from there. i'm guessing it will be good! i mean, you don't rub the shoulders of people that you aren't attracted to in some way! good luck and let me know what happens!
