In a relationship, are you more dominant or submissive?

Quietly dominant.

 

LOL, best response so far.

 

That said,I can be pretty dominant when the situation requires it.Some times I feel women need a firm hand in some situations,a strong but guiding hand.Generally though I am a laid back guy and will let the woman take the lead.My sexual politics are pretty confused but it's one of the things that makes life interesting.

 

It would depend on what the situation was or issue. There are some things that I would be quite assertive about and yet others that I would not be at all. It would also depend on the relationship as they each tend to have a flow that just is what it is over time.

As for most of the time, I probably land somewhere in between.

 

how about

How do you and your partner reach decisions, does one or the other of you do all or most of it or do you share.

 

Oh well in that case my answer is completely different.

We both reach decisions mutually.

Like I will feel like bacon for dinner.
She will feel like salad for dinner.
We talk.
We compromise.
And we have salad for dinner.

=]

 

switch hitters have more fun. or so they've told me. i've just never been that much of either.

 

It seems fairly obvious Bird does not have a partner atm :sunny:

 

Good answer.

 

I should be careful what I post, because people know everything about my life just by the way I post.
Do you also know what I had for breakfast?

 

Boterham?

 

:lurk5:

 

I have some very dom fantasies sometimes - nothing gruesome or too way out but yeah sometime in my head I really want to boss the woman.The furthest I've ever got to being a bit dom in an actual relationship was tying my girlfriends hands to the bedhead with a scarf in missionary position,and then smacking her arse from behind in doggy position.,not to hard but pretty firm.She liked it,but at the same time ~I felt a little guilty like I was doing something wrong,because I am such a typical repressed Englishman Virgo at heart.I accept I have these primordial drives and suchlike,but would love to meet someone to explore this a bit further with,now that I am bit more mature about my attitude to sex.Strangely I also get off on the woman really bossing me and taking control too.I love it when my woman will like boss me about in the kitchen and act all imperious and aloof with me.Of course I also just like natural lovemaking and kisses and cuddles.

 

Phew, it seems I can keep some things a secret. :2thumbsup:

 

Why don't you give us some fracking info on your own Predilections?

 

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I still don't understand what you're getting at.

 

I do what I want.

I am naturally a dominant person usually. But also I can be pretty submissive in relationships. Like.. let's just say I'm dominant in every way but sexually/romantically. In that case, I can be either or neither but I like the guy to be the one to initiate things w me and be the more aggressive one sexually. But I can just as easily flip the switch. I'd say in general I do what I want but I'm really neither.

 

Well, to answer original OP, I do not crawl for anyone out of service. If I do, it is a choice I make out of love.....I have crawled around here plenty of times looking for my cats under beds and couches....lol

 

I have never thought about this. I really can't relate. I don't see things this way.