I'm a girl and typically hang around guys. I have your pretty average insecurities that most 20 year old ladies have. Now what i think people don't get is there is a difference between being insecure and desperate. Just because a person (m or f) doesn't always feel the best about themselves doesn't mean they don't respect themselves most of the time. Thoughts?
I think you drew a very nice distinction insecure vs desperate. I believe we all have our little insecurities.